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[–]Vulptex[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (15 children)

I really do hope as this pendulum swings back from all the CRAZY shit these ideological children have tried to force on people that once that pendulum swings as far back as it will go, that the REAL minority communities just looking for equality do not lose what they fought so hard to gain

Hate to break it to you, but they already have. Just look at how many people in the past 2 years went from reasonable to obsessed with hating Jews, blacks, gays, trannies, and even women.

I am not a transvestite as far as I can tell. I'm tired of the gender movement forcing me to conflate two different things. I don't crossdress and I don't live by female gender roles. I never identified as female. Actually it would probably be easier to continue identifying as male so I don't have to change a whole bunch of things. For the longest time I've effectively hoped my sex would change but somehow no one would notice. If biological sex wasn't real, I wouldn't be whining about this right now. I was fortunate enough to not really get genital dysphoria and was able to live a mostly normal childhood, but this post-pubescent body isn't going to work. It feels like I'm trapped in a costume, and I'm really bad with sensory discomforts. I don't recognize myself in the mirror anymore either, but that's beside the point. I'm fine with the transvestites standing up for themselves and trying to win acceptance, but NOT at the expensive of people who suffer from a horrible tragic disease. People like me have been found to have certain genetic defects in common, we're not just drag queens. This is not a social construct. I am not interested in changing anything that doesn't come with me into the shower (and no, I'm not interested in boobs either).

[–]hfxB0oyA 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

Have you looked into an autism diagnosis? Do you think anything in that might help with this disorder?

[–]Vulptex[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

No, because I've had that diagnosis for most of my life. Apparently it's hard to pick up on, but luckily one of my doctors has it himself and was able to catch it.

How could it help with this?

[–]hfxB0oyA 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Not sure. Your mention of sensory discomforts prompted my question. I guess I was wondering if the sex dysphoria (to crib the term you used elsewhere) might be thought of as an extension of the sensory problem, i.e, the persistent awareness of your twig n' berries might be the thing that's the core discomfort, and if there might be some autism based therapy strategies that could lead you to be less uncomfortable with your factory settings.

[–]Vulptex[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I think it definitely intensifies the problem, and maybe it's the reason it's significant at all. But that's not going to change. It can't be the cause, because I notice things being off even if they don't bother me, like my hands being too big. It's also quite the coincidence that all the bothersome features are sex differences.

[–]hfxB0oyA 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

That makes me wonder if you were able to lean into the awareness of these differences and go hyper masculine (working out, etc), if that would somehow result in you being happy with them. I understand that constitutes an enormous mental leap; not suggesting you can just mosey into that - this is just me speculating.

[–]Vulptex[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That won't work. It would also make me more miserable because I'm not hyper-masculine.

It's not society.

[–]hfxB0oyA 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Crummy situation all around.

[–]iamonlyoneman 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Hard to pick up on? Nibba i picked up on it from ur internet shitposting style ur doctors all suck donkey dick

[–]Vulptex[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I'm much weirder online than in real life.

[–]Czavitsky 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

i seriously doubt that.. i believe that every thing that comes out of your mouth describes your psychological condition, which is not good.

[–]Vulptex[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I hide it very well. Part of the reason is too many people care about me way too much, and they can't handle even the thought that I might be like this. If I try to open up about it, there's hell to pay. They desperately compel me to shut up and "be positive".

[–]iamonlyoneman 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Your therpaist does not give a fuck about you as a person bb

[–]BobOki 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I agree with you, but not how you think. There is a huge difference, IMO, between a person wanting to transition fully to another sex, bottom/top surgery and all. That is 100% their right as long as they are an adult, and I think not a lot of people are actually against THAT. They need a new label for that, because we now label everything... another thing these communities fought against, because those people belong in a totally separate group. You have OG trannies that it is fetish/sexual, you have the ideological trash that feel like they are male or female per day with no other changes at all.... we call that cosplaying and I do NOT have to buy into your bullshit. Then the last would be people actually with gender dysmorphia and want to switch genders, and I am willing to bet most of those people did not just recently "decide" that fits them once this trend got fashionable, knew from early early childhood, even if they rejected it because of social reasons.

Once again, if you just get rid of ALL this ideological crap, the whole community will be better off, everyone else will support you more because who does not want equality when it is inclusionary and not ex, and that also used to help us easily see the bigots and racists and we could avoid them. Now ANYONE that does not 100% buy all in and bow in front of these people are alt-right, nazi, literally harmful people, when everyone BUT you is the problem, that usually means YOU are the problem.

Like I said, I really feel bad for ACTUAL LGBT people because you are front line trapped in between factually insane people, and the people that are tired of their bullying and abuse. Hope you find both peace and happiness.

[–]Vulptex[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm pretty sure I fall into the dysmorphia group. If anything the trans activists held me back, because all I saw was transvestites and confused kids. And that may very well have ruined my life, because I think 5-10 years ago people would've been willing to listen long enough for me explain the difference, whereas now they just have a knee-jerk reaction and immediately start calling hellfire down on you. And the worst part is, I can't even blame them for the most part.

[–]BobOki 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It is sad all around... but really bad players ruin anything that gets popular. Think of ANY trend or media that gets popular.. it is ruined shortly thereafter by bad actors and now ideological zealots. Disney has REALLY shown us just how toxic ideology is, but even more so, how much more in magnitudes the proponents of these ideologies are compared to the actual fandom. I have NEVER seen a more toxic, entitled, and delusional group than these guys. They come into a popular franchise to take it over, once again because they are bankrupt of any creativity of their own, and decide no matter the setting, time, history, or even REALITY, they want to replace all whites with other colors, unless they need a bad guy then it is white male, and all other males with females, even if they are black they tend to get race swapped. Evidently females, and on top black females, are the only competent beings in existence anymore, and that is so laughable I cannot even begin to take anyone who thinks this seriously. And this has been proven time and time and time and time and time again... shit man the WORLDS leading female soccer team got their asses HANDED to them by a fucking HIGH SCHOOL male team, full stop.

Anyways, there has always been a extremely small niche of people that were gender dysmorphic, and wanted to transition in that community, maybe 1%? So 1% of the 2-5% of the population is actually dysmorphic, so naturally every single narcist is falling over themselves to join this ultra special group of uber minorities so they can get top pity points, leaving the real 1% high, dry, and directionless. Their issues have now been boiled down to a popular choice that can change multiple times daily, hey man these guys solved it all for you! Your issues are no longer there because you can just SAY you are male or female as the wind blows, WHEEEE!