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[–]Zapped 10 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Whatever you've done wrong or perceived to have done wrong, forgive yourself. It sounds weird if you haven't done before, but believe me, it is fantastic. It allows you to let go of the past so you can do more now. You may be overthinking.

[–]Vulptex[S] 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

That won't fix anything. It's almost all beyond my control.

[–]jet199Instigatrix 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Then leave your situation.

You need to take responsibility for you life as it is now and going forward.

You do have control over your own life. You live in a free country.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something. If you fuck up that's tough but at least it's your fuck up and you're not just someone else's collateral.

[–]Vulptex[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I can't just leave my situation. It follows me wherever I go.