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[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

when she started listing herself as "bisexual" on the dating apps, her matches with women suddenly halved. Why else would that happen?

If it hasn't been said to your IRL friend yet, tell her those are all bullets she dodged. Be glad when people rule themselves out.

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Oh, she actually told me that immediately after she told me about it. I was very proud of her. :) She's very good at seeing the adaptive side of things like that. (I think you would like her.)

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh, good, I'm glad she was able to take that perspective quickly. And yes, I probably would!