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[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Nby is an easy way of getting away from labels and the gender stereotypes and thus treatment associated with them at a limited level(limited to effect the treatment from those who buy into it). That's what I think it was originally created for, but it's a double-edged sword in that it's also an easy way to deny reality, whether they want to pretend to be Straight, Gay, or Bi. And that's what a lot of nbys use it for that I consider negative. It's a lot like transing in both those ways.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This guy is extremely easy to read as gay and he doesn't care but clearly seems to be using it to use very masculine "straight" men who think they are straight.

Like his type is 6'6" gym rat and "straight" so he dies his hair pink and says he is NB and pulls these guys for X weeks then dumps them because they are crazy in some way. The sad thing is he isn't wrong but I can't figure out yet if he knows completely what he's doing or if he started buying his own propaganda.