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[–]usehername 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (26 children)

I think you've blocked me but fuck it I'll reply. No one is hateful towards bisexuals except that ONE guy who keeps making new accounts. Pointing out that bisexuals (usually ones who are not out) harm the LGB community in specific ways isn't a "hate boner". No one is fucking blaming you for that so being defensive isn't doing you or anyone else any favors. You're attempting to shut down discussion when as bisexual people we should be focusing on solutions to integrate these people into our community so the conflict can cease.

I agree with barbie that it's a bit of a circlejerk, but this is our only place to go where people share our opinions. There are debate subs and the like. If you're sick of this place and don't do anything about it in real life then the solutions are obvious.

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (13 children)

Wait it’s one guy with different accounts?? Oh ok I didn’t even realize

[–]reluctant_commenter 10 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Gramaroo, JiminyCricket, Jellyfish something, etc... if you see a comment that hates bisexuals, lesbians, straight people, and has some typos, it might be a good bet.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

The most recent ones were orangina5 and the original was exponent_2. The names are usually in lower case and I'll also add that he'll criticise gay men only if they're black, otherwise they're safe from his vitriol.

[–]usehername 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

There are repeated phrases and the writing style is pretty much identical. I'm guessing he keeps getting permabanned and that's why he keeps making new accounts.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

IP ban maybe? do the mods have that power on this site?

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No clue. Probably not, but it's possible?

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

No, we don't, only Admins do and can see that level of detail.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think on Reddit if mods suspect ban evasion they can contact the admins for IP ban, not sure if that’s the same here?

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

We can, yes, but it's ultimately up to the Admins if they want to do so.

IP bans are getting harder and harder to manage though, with VPNs and public wifi/hotspots. It's not always a guarantee, and can catch innocent people by doing so.

We've never asked for an IP ban because of that. We've just contacted Admins about obvious repeat trolls and ban evaders, and asked them if they can help. Give them the info, and let them do with it what they will.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Just letting you know his newest alt is flouiride25.

[–]reluctant_commenter 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I think you've blocked me but fuck it I'll reply. No one is hateful towards bisexuals except that ONE guy who keeps making new accounts. Pointing out that bisexuals (usually ones who are not out) harm the LGB community in specific ways isn't a "hate boner".

A little off topic-- I don't know if this helps explain at all, but I remember seeing a lot more negative comments about bisexuals months ago-- that's part of why I try to question it when I see it, I would prefer we not go back to that. But, PatsyStone wasn't around then either (unless this is an alt I guess) so I am not sure what recent examples he/she might be referring to.

[–]usehername 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I agree that plainly hateful comments towards bisexuals in general shouldn't be accepted and I appreciate your support, but Pat seems to take offense where none is given, which is why I felt the need to reply.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Thank you very much. I literally don't understand why the f*ck so many bi's get so defensive all the time. I also criticize the lesbian community and attitudes from some lesbians. It's not that I purposely have a focus on criticizing bi people. I just criticize when I think something is worthy of criticism. And just like me, people here except from trolls or rare exceptions, never generalize bisexuals. We do make sure to separate the "old school bisexuals" from the "crazy queer ones".

[–]usehername 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. It's not personal.