I met a girl at a college before i learned about all this. She had the same thing but opposite. She was "trans but no dysphoria." I ended up talking to her for several hours because I was so confused by her statements. Basically we boiled it down to she was only trans for dating and specifically for sex because her concept of her sexuality was being the top in a gay male relationship. She was fine being a woman in day to day life but could only envision having sex by railing a femboy.

She also knew a fake ftm penis didn't work so wasn't interested in surgery. At first she refused to accept the idea of just dating an efeminate straight guy. IT MUST BE GAY. Eventually she agreed with me at how impossible it was to make a gay guy want to date a woman. I explained that just based on statistics there are so few gays in society that if she just bluntly stated in a dating app or website what she wanted that the most likely response would come from a straight guy. Take all gays and just remove all tops and verse guys off the bat then look at only bottoms and find some tiny percentage of those people who might go along with her request. The number becomes vanishingly small. Take the same small percentage of all straight men and the number is suddenly more viable.

At the end she was just staring off into space. She said she never thought about it in terms of pure numbers before then kind of wanders off. She had been coming to the LGBT room for a while then I never saw her again after that.