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[–]julesburm1891 34 insightful - 11 fun34 insightful - 10 fun35 insightful - 11 fun -  (9 children)

  1. I don’t even know where to begin on this bio. People are buying worn clothing from this gremlin? What on earth does “the boyfriend experience” mean in—well, in any context really—but especially in the context of “I’m a woman into bdsm claiming to be a porn priest?” Who advertises they’re from central Florida with pride? How did I come out of a Twitter bio feeling offended on behalf of the Catholic Church?

  2. Typing incredible in ALL CAPS will, in fact, not convince a single man that he should let a mentally unstable woman shove anything in any part of his body.

[–]reluctant_commenter 27 insightful - 5 fun27 insightful - 4 fun28 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

How did I come out of a Twitter bio feeling offended on behalf of the Catholic Church?

Made me laugh out loud, thanks. It's such an irrational combination of pieces in one bio.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 23 insightful - 9 fun23 insightful - 8 fun24 insightful - 9 fun -  (2 children)

What on earth does “the boyfriend experience” mean in—well, in any context really—but especially in the context of “I’m a woman into bdsm claiming to be a porn priest?”

Well, thanks to Steven Soderbergh, I know that "the girlfriend experience" is a service offered by some female prostitutes: acting as though they're in a romantic relationship with, rather than merely hired by, the customer. So I guess this is... for customers who want the illusion of a romantic relationship with a woman who thinks that she's a man? Two illusions/delusions for the price of one, then? Cuz why only be fooling yourself on a single level? Let's just pile 'em on! Maybe she could also identify as a cat, inanimate object, and "fae" while she's at it? (Or maybe that would cost extra?)

[–]julesburm1891 15 insightful - 7 fun15 insightful - 6 fun16 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

...like taking your cousin to the prom to pretend you can get a date? Oh boy.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

...like taking your cousin to the prom to pretend you can get a date? Oh boy.

Except simultaneously more expensive AND more pathetic!

[–][deleted] 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

“the boyfriend experience”

Is something I've heard referred to in the BDSM community. So hm. How to summarize this? There's a concept of "aftercare" in BDSM, where you finish whatever physically and/or psychologically challenging activity as the active, giving participant, and then optionally move to the "aftercare" phase. Cuddling, blankets, glass of water, emotional support, perhaps debriefing, etc. It's a decent concept, and there's so much variation on it, sometimes the active partner is the recipient of the aftercare. Sometimes aftercare is provided by a person not involved in the activity. Anyhow, the "boyfriend experience" is a rare, pejorative term in BDSM where person A plays with person B not for the immediate activity, and not explaining their intentions whatsoever, but does the BDSM activity for the aftercare.

"Play at a dungeon is not a substitute for a long term relationship. If you want a boyfriend experience, then go get a boyfriend." https://fetlife.com/users/305828/posts/5553853

[–]julesburm1891 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Are you saying that, after going through either really rough sex or a kind of dehumanizing experience, some people will play pretend cuddles afterwards? That’s kind of messed up.

[–]usehername 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yep... A.K.A. trauma bonding. Pimps do this to the women they prostitute.

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well BDSM is a label that encompasses a wide variety of activities, such as bondage, which is pretty innocent, as long as it's done safely. There's a reason why the "boyfriend experience" is looked down upon in that community, because they're not doing BDSM for the "right" reasons. That community is policing itself. They want people to do BDSM and be happy before, happy during, and happy after. That's psychologically healthy. The BFE people, my understanding is, tend to stay towards the lighter side of the activities, but if they're not happy about the BDSM activity, that's regarded as a problem.

[–]lavender_menace 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There are fetishists who buy worn clothing to sniff. Usually undergarments.