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[–]censorshipment 2 insightful - 7 fun2 insightful - 6 fun3 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

It's weird because we had similar teenage years, except I only dated girls during high school. Her first "boyfriend" was 10+ years older than her when she was 13... she had a baby by him when she was 15. Instead of seeing him as a rapist, she sees him as a friend. She started dating women when she was 20 while she was in an abusive relationship with another older man. Her first serious relationship with a woman also has a 10+ year age gap. But once she hit 30, she went back to men and was in a 10 year relationship with a guy 11 years younger than her. And she thinks her relationship history is better than mine. The delusion. Yesterday, she was bragging about how she bought her 19-20 year old boyfriend underwear, socks, and deodorant because he didn't know what to buy for himself. She was 30-31 when she had his baby... so she was taking care of her boyfriend and their baby... and she's proud of that. Lmao

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm just shaking my head.

She wants to live in the fantasy-land where she has the fabulous cool-girl sex-life, instead of reality, where her love-life is a literal shit-storm. I guess it must be a coping mechanism. But seriously, imagine dating a 19 year old guy? They don't even know how to wipe their own asses at that age. She was his mommy-sex-maid, not his girlfriend.