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[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

EWW. Bullet dodged. What kind of 42 year old is bragging about having sex? That's what insecure teenagers do. It's not about quantity, it's about quality. I wouldn't normally even comment about what other people do with their sex lives, it's none of my business, but it rubbed me the wrong way that she's trying to mock you for not having had as many partners.

Third wave feminism really did a number on some women. They think running around doing one-night-stands and mindlessly fucking strangers (and probably not even getting an orgasm, if it's with a man, let's be real) makes them somehow own their sexuality and be equal to men. You can tell she's one of those, because it is a source of pride for her.

[–]censorshipment 2 insightful - 7 fun2 insightful - 6 fun3 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

It's weird because we had similar teenage years, except I only dated girls during high school. Her first "boyfriend" was 10+ years older than her when she was 13... she had a baby by him when she was 15. Instead of seeing him as a rapist, she sees him as a friend. She started dating women when she was 20 while she was in an abusive relationship with another older man. Her first serious relationship with a woman also has a 10+ year age gap. But once she hit 30, she went back to men and was in a 10 year relationship with a guy 11 years younger than her. And she thinks her relationship history is better than mine. The delusion. Yesterday, she was bragging about how she bought her 19-20 year old boyfriend underwear, socks, and deodorant because he didn't know what to buy for himself. She was 30-31 when she had his baby... so she was taking care of her boyfriend and their baby... and she's proud of that. Lmao

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm just shaking my head.

She wants to live in the fantasy-land where she has the fabulous cool-girl sex-life, instead of reality, where her love-life is a literal shit-storm. I guess it must be a coping mechanism. But seriously, imagine dating a 19 year old guy? They don't even know how to wipe their own asses at that age. She was his mommy-sex-maid, not his girlfriend.