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[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 20 insightful - 8 fun20 insightful - 7 fun21 insightful - 8 fun -  (7 children)

In one of the comments:

Agendered Lesbian here. I love women in a queer/Sapphic way, no men involved.

What the fuck is loving women in a "queer/Sapphic way"? Also, I love the fact that she had to point out "no men involved". What the fuck, but that's obvious!

[–]reluctant_commenter[S] 26 insightful - 3 fun26 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Users on "actuallesbians" think that being LGB is a lifestyle, an outlook on life, a philosophy... anything but an involuntary pattern of attraction.

[–]MilkTea 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Agender but identifies as a lesbian? What. I kid you not, I just witnessed an agender they/them and a fae/she/they getting offended over someone saying "bruh" on a discord server that I’m in. Bruh is too masculine for an agender person, but identifying as an agender lesbian is okay?

[–]mvmlego 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Agender but identifies as a lesbian?

Well, that would work if "woman" refers to a gender and "lesbian" refers to a sexual orientation (specifically, exclusive attraction to bona fide females), but the latter notion flies in the face of contemporary TRA dogma. I'm surprised they didn't get called out for it. I suppose it just goes to show that all they care about is rote affirmation of self-given identities, rather than ideological consistency.

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

They sound like mental health problems lol.

[–]ChodeSandwichtender and moist 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

If she's so ashamed of being a woman that she has to call herself genderless, it's probably a safe bet that she's too ashamed to speak plainly about sex and attraction.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 7 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

I just assume that’s coded language for they like to “muff” trans women’s ballsacks. It certainly is queer, isn’t it?!

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm trying to work out what's going on here. I like women who have female bodies and anatomy who are not male. Are they females who are into males who are "feminised" or "effeminate"? Are they males who are into women and transgender women? People with really agp who are aware they're not women but want to be female in some way?