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[–]8bitgay 27 insightful - 5 fun27 insightful - 4 fun28 insightful - 5 fun -  (3 children)

Gay and lesbian DO include trans people, and if you're attracted to non-binary people you're not gay and/or lesbian.

It's always funny when TRAs aren't updated to the wokest TRA views. You can probably be banned from ActualLesbians if you say lesbians aren't attracted to non-binary people.

Gay men have no business speaking on the sexuality of lesbians.

He said that after making the comment above mentioning lesbians

You're not a lesbian

And this was after the comment above

These were all comments made by the same person in the same train of comments. It's hilarious, he really can't decide if he can speak for lesbians or not.


Send me a message when ANYONE (cis or trans) is willing to fuck you and we can chat about trans discourse.

And it all ends with the incel tactic of "actually I wasn't into you anyway". Yeah, TRAs continuously demand attraction from gays/lesbians, continuously try to redefine our sexualities, continuously talk about their genitals in our spaces, continuously demand validation from you... But if you say anything about it suddenly they'll claim no one is interested in you.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Gay men have no business speaking on the sexuality of lesbians.

I mean, pointing out what one's sexuality is can be done if you can confirm that they are attracted to someone. If I know a woman is attracted to men, I know she is NOT a lesbian, but must be straight or bisexual. It isn't gatekeeping, it's pure unadulterated logic, and my conclusion is as certain as my knowledge that she is attracted to men. Granted: if I am not certain about who someone is attracted to, then I would be in no place to tell them who they're attracted to, but if someone openly admits information, then it is fairly easy for anyone with a script to eliminate at least two of the four optioins in one go.

And of course, this works in all directions. Any woman would be more qualified to tell me my own sexuality than I am if I am openly attracted to men but insist that I am straight.

I find it absurd that we aren't allowed to draw conclusions about people from the information they provide anymore. Let me call a spade a spade!

[–]deliciousdogfoodmy name isnt a puppyplay reference i swear 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

They just want to ensure that lesbians are completely isolated from the GB and heterosexuals, so they can be more easily gaslit, trampled into the dirt and made to feel completely alone. Using woke politics to ensure that nobody can defend a lesbians right to be purely attracted to other women but lesbians themselves ensures that they can apply their "terf rhetoric screeeee" or "women are much too stupid to know what they want, but its woke this time" bullshit without any lesbian supporters getting in the mix and calling them out.

The LGB is a minority. All the big corporations have moved on to the T and gender woowoos because they're easier cash cows, so they won't stick up for us. Discourage us from speaking up for each other, and even more effectively discourage heterosexuals for speaking up on our behalf and our voices remain tiny and easy to drown out.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I just hope this accelerating pattern of smaller and smaller subsets of not-cishet-white-males-hating-on-everyone-else ends up dividing the T smaller than some critical mass required to sustain themselves, finally resulting in the end of this cycle

[–]reluctant_commenter 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Always nice to see the sanity in the comments. Still wonder how long AGB will last.

Also, I think I've seen ClockDestroyer (aka PlantDaddy) use words like "hun" and "sweetie" and whatnot way more than any other gay man. Is that user trans? Just curious, because it seems similar to something in "actuallesbians" where you see this phenomenon where trans-identified males say "bitch" and other slurs a lot, though they are not women.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 15 insightful - 6 fun15 insightful - 5 fun16 insightful - 6 fun -  (4 children)

That maggot claims to be a gay man in a relationship with a transman. He's obsessed with bottom shaming. He's certainly bitchy enough to be a professional drag queen at least.

[–]deliciousdogfoodmy name isnt a puppyplay reference i swear 11 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

He came here once, If I remember correctly. Different username, but called people "Hysterical bottoms" and had the same general demeanor so I figured it was the same guy. Tried to tell me the evil terfs would stab me in the back as if everyone on this sub wasnt already very aware of which demographic is the backstabby type.

[–]cure_osa_disorder 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Shaming bottoms while engaging in heterosexual sex = homophobe

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And one of the worst kinds, too: a hypocrite.

Those who bear hatred due to misunderstanding can be educated, but those who are homophobic despite having firsthand experience of being homosexual can be especially dangerous for they create the misunderstanding that others use to hate us

[–]reluctant_commenter 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He's obsessed with bottom shaming.

That is messed up and I hope young gay guys will not take his words to heart. And perhaps he has some shame over bisexual, and thus self-identifies as gay.

[–]fuck_reddit 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

They also do the telling TRA thing of aggressively responding to every single comment that isnt virulently pro-trans and arguing with multiple people at once.

[–]reluctant_commenter 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Gotta do maintenance on the hivemind! No resistance allowed.

[–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Bisexual here, I support all my lesbian and gay family and friends and am very sorry you all have to deal with this kind of thinking. To erase these terms is to erase a history where we fought to love who we want and call ourselves what we want. We can wear what we wish, look how we wish (within our bodily constraints) and here we are in 2021 and we can't use the words gay or lesbian but trans folks can call themselves f*gs. What the actual fuck.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

At least AskGayBros are not having any of it. And most people on that sub are super liberal.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I couldn’t even understand half of this thread

[–]jjdub7TERF (Trans Exterminating Reactionary Fascist) 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

r/askgaybros used to be cool and now its just a bunch of fucking woke morons screaming that you're a bigot if you don't want to have bareback sex with HIV+ guys