BisexualHelping out bi coworker

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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Yes yes yes! Even before you’re out or just dipping your toes, the amount of comfort this provides is amazing and does a lot to make you feel normal/like a human.

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I feel honored whenever you approve of my comments, I hope you know that 😆

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Aw it’s mutual. 🤗 I was recently wondering, “where has my intellectual compadre reluctant_commenter gone?“

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Aw, I've missed you too :) :)

I've been gone partly out of disillusionment with s/lesbians, and partly out of just real-life stuff. I'm super stressed over finances right now and I'm in an area that was heavily impacted by the wildfires. The past couple weeks have been a nightmare honestly.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yea s/lesbians got especially weird and hostile for a bit and it’s still a little off. So many people coming in with an agenda and an axe to grind.

Real life is more important. I hope your finances get worked out, and I cannot imagine what it’s like living by the wildfires. How is this real life?

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, I might check back in on it in a few months or something. But it is still nice to see people like you and others over here :)