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[–]Astrid2448 17 insightful - 9 fun17 insightful - 8 fun18 insightful - 9 fun -  (10 children)

The sub is like partially that and partially bisexual women saying “I love my husband but I figured out I’m a big ol’ lezzie!! Xoxo he loves that Im gay though, he supports it so much that he’s letting me have a threesome this weekend :) I still want to be with him until I die (duh!) but I love being gay!

P.S. anyone who questions this is a bigot TERF so fuck off. I am a lesbian!!”

You think I’m joking, but the amount of attention seeking bi women claiming to be lesbians (even as they blow their husband after putting their three kids to bed) is insane.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries"[S] 8 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 5 fun -  (5 children)

I don’t know whether you’re gonna love to hate or just hate my cleaning house of r/LBL series on here but I feel compelled to gatekeep my own kind because these people are what people are going to think of when I have to tell my story until the end of time. The more I’ve poked around there the more I see it as “actuallesbians: the later years.“ But slightly less girldick, and more regular dick. There is a lot of cultiness and immaturity there.

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I used to really be grossed out reading there, then I realized it’s not even a lesbian sub, so it’s got a lot of lesbian-fetish people and women who are unhappy with their husbands, and all are idealizing same sex relationships from outside of them. It’s mostly just sexual fantasy and not based in reality. Once I saw that, I saw them a lot differently, and if they take the comphet doc seriously then I completely understand why their thinking is so out of touch.

[–]BigMommyMilkersYes, they're real 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I never realized how much of an utter shitshow that sub is, I swear lesbian fetishization by het/bi women has increased 10 fold in the last few years?

Can you imagine how hilarious it would be of two of those women wound up on a date or hookup, I'd definitely enjoy reading about that

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

They would be doing all the classic lesbian porn moves and wondering why they were not getting off and what happened to the magical love cloud. Also they would rethink fingernails. Lol.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries"[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

My most recent post in this series checks all of these boxes: A single mom who at 31 realized for the first time that women are pretty from watching TikTok videos after seeing her friend come out as a lesbian on social media and thinking relationships between women look "easy." She also suddenly realized she suppressed a memory of watching Mean Girls and thinking Janice Ian looked attractive when she put on a suit (internalized homophobia, amirite?). So of course she immediately jumped to calling herself gay while admitting attraction to male bodies. I want off this ride. Get me tf out of here.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Loooool “easy.” Okay. We say “Dyke Drama” for a reason. Anyone who thinks being with a woman is easy is kidding themselves. And she should be aware that she has to literally pay attention and make effort during sex if she wants to be with women, so if you’re not into women and don’t love that idea, then it’s probably not for you. Easy. Lol. You have to be a full on lesbian or really female-leaning bisexual to make it with women long term, for the majority of women. People that think it’s a gal pals shopping trip are on crack.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

There is no way legit bi women would behave that way unless there is something deeply wrong with them that is unrelated to sexual orientation. Either that or they are going to look back on the clueless stuff they did when coming out that was deeply tone deaf at best and harmful at worst. But then again, the TRA lovers teach new people this is normal

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

My lesbian friend was all time complaining to me about lesbian dating apps are filled with couples who are searching lesbian for threesomes, and with transbians.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is true. And utterly insane poly pan women. Like, true believers in the zodiac and “empaths.” It’s no fun

[–]windrunner 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ew. 🤮🤮🤮