Lesbians on r/AL actually try to discuss the issue of Lesbophobia. Mod locks the thread of course.

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[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 79 insightful - 9 fun79 insightful - 8 fun80 insightful - 9 fun -  (4 children)

"So i personally get uncomfortable when i see "lesbophobia" because its very often a word thrown around by TERFs to invalidate trans people of all varieties. Its something that was coopted into their rhetoric and that probably is part of why no one talks about it."

You feel uncomfortable about real lesbians, meaning homosexual women who don't want to have anything to do with dick. You only accept fake lesbianism, which is actually bisexuality, validating your delusions.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 43 insightful - 3 fun43 insightful - 2 fun44 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Exacly! They do not realise OR do not WANT to realise that the reason that place is soooo trans inclusive is because there are there plenty of bi women (who actually like d*ck and validate them uwu).

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries"[S] 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It would help if everyone were required to have flair or idk identify honestly but there are so many shitty bi women constantly speaking on behalf of lesbians. I have zero issue with bi women at all or having a bi partner, but this type has perhaps unintentionally created a monster by constantly telling TW that lesbians will be attracted to them without ever disclosing that they are bi other their post history giving it away and having that thought in the first place. If lesbians were allowed to be honest as the gay men in askgaybros are and speak on our own behalf, there would be a lot less delusion and it would save TW from a lot of pain down the line.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 35 insightful - 7 fun35 insightful - 6 fun36 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

I don't mind at all about the existence of wlw spaces. But for me, it's really important to have also a 'cis' lesbians only space. It was so hard for me to fully accept myself and not feel shame and the least I want to hear about is dick FFS. I WANT TO TALK ABOUT WOMEN AND NO FREAKING DICKS. I don't give a shit if this is 'triggering' to some people, I too deserve to be happy and have my spaces. I already hear about freaking men and d*ck on a DAILY BASIS, I have currently literally NO ONE to share my attraction with women (WOMEN BEING BIOLOGICAL WOMEN, BOOBS, PUSSY, YES THAT'S WHAT BEING ATTRACTED TO WOMEN IS). I'm angry LMAO.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries"[S] 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Coming to terms with the fact I’m a lesbian in large part involved coming to terms with the fact that my strong attraction to pussy, boobs, women’s bodies in general, etc. and my lack of interest in men wasn’t me being a creepy perv fetishist but just me having a homosexual orientation. I never understood why I had such a strong sex drive that seemed to die when I thought about or was around men. What a disappointment it was to enter the LGBT “community” and try to find people who felt the same way only to learn that I still can’t talk about that shit. But fetishizing women doing their jobs is apparently PC. . . .

When I told my straight friends about this they were at first reluctant to believe just how bad it is, but they are sympathetic. Now that their ears are to the ground, they have verified they are hearing about the same thing from others and are horrified.