A question for the community.

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[–]absoluteblasphemy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I really just am so heartbroken for you. You can’t get out of a cult unless you see it for what it is, and to do that you have to be willing to accept reality. I ask God for strength because I believe he is the only thing powerful enough to defeat evil. I realise people don’t appreciate that but I’m religious anyway, so yeah. The power of Christ compels thee.

Just follow me for a second if you can. If you realised that you were a man what would that do to you? What would that mean for you? Like really think about it, I understand why I can say these things that it just bounces right off; it’s a self defence mechanism. If you saw the truth it well, that’s a real reckoning. It’s a real horrorshow, I know that’s why I left the trans community.

I myself was also in this community also suicidal and I know that transition seems like a solution, but it’s not, it’s just a distraction. And like I said hormones are very powerful, but what are you going to do when that glow wears off and all you have are your fantasies and an infertile body that is repulsive to 99% of people?

I’m not saying this out of cruelty, I am very genuine when I say that I care about you, I care about every person that identifies as trans because you have all been lied to and you are all being hurt.

You can leave and you can have a normal life, assuming you haven’t inverted your penis (please never do that to yourself by the way, I’ve seen a neo-vag in real life and it is grotesque) but it’s very hard and you will have to be very brave.

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    [–]absoluteblasphemy 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Exactly my point, and people wonder why the “trans” suicide rate is so high. Because when we find out the truth we’re supposed to kill ourselves, and then people can say oh no this is because we didn’t drug and mutilate them sooner! This is because we didn’t accept their faulty reality! Feed the children to the machine!

    When you figure this out I humbly ask that God will be with you and you will find the strength to keep going. You deserve more than this, you deserved better than what has been done to you.

    I’m not trying to accuse you of transitioning for sexual gratification, some men do but I believe you when you say that’s not your story. I was more talking about companionship, we all deserve to be in intimate loving relationships that’s a very hard thing for trans identified people. Check out this article, it’s written by a male who identifies as female so I hope it’s more convincing on this point than I am; https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_59121c06e4b0e3bb894d5b47

    [–]RationalNeutral 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I read the article you have linked, I don't understand how this article supplements what you've been saying?

    I am aware that humans are psychologically wired to pair-bond (to form intimate relationships, to marry, etc.).

    I am aware of the statistics of finding a partner while being transgender. That it is unlikely to happen. Although that specific person has worse odds than I do, that is beside the point.

    Ever so, I will be happier as a transgender person. You might not be able to understand this, that is fine, I'm not asking you to.

    The weird thing is you keep trying to tell yourself that this is something I have been convinced of... Far more effort has been spent on convincing me that I am NOT a trasngender. I have been abused into denying being transgender for a long time, and it has resurfaced multiple times because being in denial causes problems. If anything more effort has been spent on trying to rule out this conclusion than to support it. However, the evidence has been consistently in favor of being transgender.

    A cultist doesn't go out of their way to challenge the cult's ideals to vett the ideals of the cult.