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[–]pacmanla 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

This has DEFINITELY been on my mind, & I'm a heterosexual male. I have a sister who is also very concerned of males role playing & claiming to be females as well. I don't see any state in the U.S. (even conservative ones) being fully able to avoid the trans insanity/delusional nonsense. I have a lot of empathy for biologcal females & I'm p***ed off for them.

Also as a heterosexual male, I want to be able to look for a REAL woman to be romantic with & not apologize, or "question" myself for not being into natal MALES!!! It's crazy how this conversion therapy, coercive rape rhetoric is allowed. Yeah, I'm definitely looking at other options.

[–]YourSister 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Where I live, in conservative rural US, the teenagers (mostly white, like the town) march with "Black Trans Lives Matter" signs last summer. I know every single black person in this town, and none of us is trans. Those kids were not marching for the local people, neither for our lives, nor for the people who gathered to watch their small parade.

I say this to illustrate how the mindset is everywhere, taking over everything, every movement. It is the internet. We have had high speed internet/wireless phones for over a decade now. I doubt anywhere is safe, and I am mad about it. I am glad some men are also mad about it- speak up for all of us, please. For your sister, mom, your hoped for partner, and those of us you don't know or even like.

[–]BEB 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am happy that there are men who can see through the bullshit and who will stand up for women. Thank you.

Have you looked at s/SuperStraight?

I don't know if there's a state where you can fully avoid it, and many Americans can't afford to pick up and move, so maybe it's best to stand and fight.

[–]TheOnyxGoddess 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I would advise against using "natal" unless you're doing satire (I'm assuming you're not, it doesn't look like you're quoting anything). You are a man. I'm not trying to police language (it's fine to use it here). I'm really just giving advice if you want to discourage the usage of language TRAs use to try to find a "in-between" of conflicting mentalities. I wish you luck. I hope to find a man and not have to find out it's a TiM/TiF (either a male who is trying to be a woman or female trying to be a man) after sharing bits of my life story with him. Dating takes a large amount of emotional and psychological investment which I can't afford to waste so I know how you feel.

[–]our_team_is_winning 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Do we have a list of such places? Poland? Saudi Arabia? (ha!) If anyone has this magical list, please post it.

I wish there were places that were Certified Non-Woke. I wish we could move in time rather than space. I miss the time when children didn't have easy access to hardcore porn, "choking" was not a thing, anal was not the norm, and nobody was confused about the difference between male and female.

Being forced to move is just another way pornsick men would be pushing women (and normal men) around. Why should women have to retreat in the face of the Sissy Porn Army advance?

I feel like if the lying media could stop lying at least on this one issue. If they could stop with the "How Republicans are endangering the lives of trans youth" BS and admit there is no such thing as "trans youth" -- it's a creation of sick adults who need to be reeled in -- then this could end.

[–]lefterfield 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Well, I live in a conservative state, and I trust that they'll at least put up a fight against the trans cult. I don't think my options are going to be better anywhere else.

[–]WildApples 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't think I will completely avoid it, but I would like to go somewhere where I can openly express GC views without worrying that my social network will implode or my job will be threatened. I think eventually I will move from my current blue state to a red or at least purple state.

[–]YourSister 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am black, and was born in a majority black country, which was/is terrible for women. I moved to the US in high school, and have lived in liberal cities my whole adult life, until now. I don't like living in a 99% white , hyper conservative, rural town. I can't imagine moving to a conservative state would be good for me, let alone a country that protects women by covering them up, forcing them to have almost no public life. I also will not give up loving women.

Is there such a place that would protect me as a black woman? I kind of doubt it exists, so I will stay and fight where I am.

[–]Baileyscheesecakes 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Some things to consider about moving to a conservative state:

while you may be surrounded by other gender critical people with whom you can talk openly about the craziness going on, you may very well find that you disagree with them on most other issues. This can make social gatherings challenging if politics or policies come up. You have to decide how you will navigate these situations. I keep quiet, ask questions for the purpose of greater understanding (not as a challenge), or find common ground to comment on, and this has worked well. Most of the time, though, we talk about community or family matters and get along very well. My neighbors are kind, fun people who will help you in a pinch. I don't understand how they can hold some of the views they do, but I don't let it get in the way of friendly relations. Also consider how "red" various parts of a particular state are. You may not want to move to "Deliverance" country.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I would like to, though for many reasons relating to failed liberal policy. TRA stuff is only one part of it. Not making an active plan to yet though.