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[–]Greykittymomma[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Luckily it seems like the monster is facing a lot of time and won't be able to see her ever again.

I totally agree it is not love but fixation that is the terminology he apparently used which makes it so awful.

I worried about how much I could get involved because I am related to the abuser by blood by not her so I want to support her but of course the situation is complicated. She also had trauma before this happened so I already was careful to respect her boundaries.

[–]one1won 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm so sorry this has happened. It must be very difficult.

Has the girl obtained a permanent No Contact Order, also? Even if the abuser is incarcerated, he may still attempt to contact her, especially if he's claiming "love". Women who're done with a man*, just want the man to "go away", want to have Nothing more to do with him.

Best wishes, as this unfolds.

(*Edit. This is poorly stated. I hope you can infer my true meaning.)

[–]Greykittymomma[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That is good info about the No Contact Order I will pass that along thank you.