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[–]Kai_Decadence 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Their "goals" are anime girls, pinups, and models.

This crap right here... Eugh. See okay I'm a feminine gay man myself and my look is not masculine in the least but even when I was developing my style, I never wanted to aspire to be those things nor did I understand what the appeal was with that until I started reading more of those "How I knew I was trans" stories and point blank, they honestly believe that these things are what define what women are. Looking sexy and getting dominated. Marktwainiac's answer was right on the money. It's not about wanting to break gender roles, it's about their own porno-fueled fetish to get off and it mostly does happen when their wife is pregnant. It's sissy/bimbo fetish, at least for most AGP (Autogynephelia, though some Gay men - HSTS - fall into this as well).

In any case I'm so sorry that this happened to you. It's never nice having to read these stories because it comes out of left field and leaves the family devastated...