I'm glad I'm not the only one who notices it. It's truly frustrating because if you're gonna claim to be critical of gender, you should be critical of the "gender theory" as a whole but I think the issue is that a lot of these gay men and lesbians though mostly gay men are not nonconforming in appearance so they don't see how the Trans ideology also affects effeminate guys, I'm living proof of it personally because the amount of negative attention I get for being myself is pretty crushing at times, especially when the comments start rolling in on how I'm "trans in denial" or similar sentiments just because I'm a non-masculine guy both in personality and appearance.

Gender nonconformity seems a bit more accepting in GC too, and talked about as well.

Yeah I see that GC does talk about gender nonconformity, mostly on women for the obvious but still, it's great to just have the topic brought up somewhere.

Off topic but did your (younger?) brother understand where you are coming from in a GC perspective?

He's actually my fraternal twin so we're the same age haha. But no I don't think he did. We're talking again but we just don't talk about it and we actually recently talked about the current Blaire White scandal of him lying about that Trans athlete and I just tried to take the Posie Parker approach by instead of calling Blaire White "he" or "she", I just called them by "they/them" or his name. I'm just gonna wait until I make my YouTube video where I express why I think Transgenderism is not real because I'll be able to lay out my reasoning in a more structured way.