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[–]LeaveAmsgAfterBeep 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Reading on codependency might be useful. You say kindness is most important to you after honesty, but you are being cruel to yourself and have not valued honesty for months.

There is a reason someone goes so vastly opposed to their values, every time, even if the reason doesn’t make sense to them at the time or to others. What are you afraid of? I am sorry, you didn’t cause the bigger issues but you can help yourself move forward, I don’t mean this as blame. He is responsible for his own behavior above all.

Wish you luck, you deserve happiness and peace.