Anyone live with a pro trans cult person?

lunemoonjune · 2020-09-29T23:32:10+00:00

I live with two right now, but we don’t really talk so it doesn’t come up? If they bring up anything related to it my plan is to just dodge the question or nod along. If they’re not trans themselves it’s not a big issue - if they are, be prepared to hear about transphobia nonstop and constantly be asked to validate their identity! Because I’ve had that experience too.

lunemoonjune · 2020-09-02T05:52:12+00:00

It’s regressive shit like this I can’t stand. I finally got the right to not have dick in my life if I don’t want to but now the dick is just cropping up everywhere. Get. Your dicks. Out of here. Ffs.

lunemoonjune · 2020-09-02T03:33:44+00:00

They really do, this is such truth. I dated one for awhile and whenever she went out in a sports bra and cargo shorts she got clocked. You can’t hide much in that kind of outfit. She has a pea coat she got clocked in that she now refuses to wear ever again.

lunemoonjune · 2020-08-31T15:28:06+00:00

As someone who has (regrettably) encountered the girldick, guess what? It’s the same as a man’s because well. You know.

It’s disgusting that lesbians are just expected to like dick now and it’s transphobic if they don’t. I’ve felt pressure to be straight my entire life, I don’t need it from TIMs too smh.

lunemoonjune · 2020-08-27T03:52:44+00:00

No, you’re right, I wouldn’t date a natal woman with these issues either. I guess I’ve just been dealing with it so long it didn’t seem like a real reason for breaking up. I’m starting to see that it is though, and the more I talk about it the more I realize how much it bothers me. Thank you so much for your support!

lunemoonjune · 2020-08-27T03:26:19+00:00

I honestly don’t care too much about her being jobless or living at home except how it affects me. She has always had someone to buy her food and clean up after her, and I have taken up the role in place of her mother. I don’t think you’re worthless for not having a job or living with your parents (everyone’s situation is different) but I mention it because it’s a strain on me as I am essentially her provider.

Thank you for your support. She is depressed as well, which doesn’t help, and I feel awful contributing to anything that would make her sad. But I need to do it for me. And for her too, she still she deserves love and I hope she finds it. But I know it won’t be with me and unfair to us both to keep on like this.

Thank you again, your words were kind and helpful (:

lunemoonjune · 2020-08-27T03:03:02+00:00

Thank you, that’s a good point. I didn’t see it that way because I’m so focused on the trans thing but there are plenty of other things. Appreciate your help.

lunemoonjune