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[–]DevianttKitten[S] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I won't be reporting it because of some mildly related cannabis stuff, which is still very illegal to possess here. The last thing I need is for police to be involved. It's a small town anyway, they don't even get off their ass for intervention order breaches, I doubt they'd do anything about a sexual assault. They're rarely even reachable because they're never at the station.

I'll see if I can report him on tinder, but I might've unmatched him after I got his phone number anyway.

[–]yishengqingwa666 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'd love to report him, if I knew his profile.

[–]catawampus 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It is totally up to you whether you want to report it to the police, you are completely valid making the choice best for you. No matter what, he was completely in the wrong and you should never feel like it was your fault or feel ashamed for what happened.

I say this not to guilt you, but I would still gently suggest reporting him to the police. Even if he isn’t convicted in this case, having a prior history with the police would make it easier to convict him in the future if he violates another woman and she reports it.