I feel so conflicted with everything gender related. I want to support people to do whatever they want; love who you want, be who you want, wear what you want, do whatever you want to your own body. Sometimes I desperately want to support trans and nonbinary people like I did before because I feel so guilty when I see all my friends and classmates preaching about TRANS LIVES and sharing all those trans petitions and gofundmes on Twitter. Whenever they speak about issues over lunch or whatever, I nonchalantly go along with it. I remember preaching the same things they did in early high school, and I truly felt the words I would speak. Now, I would feel so uncomfortable and disingenuous speaking their phrases out loud.
Of course, growing up we all (HOPEFULLY) become more critical and aware of the consequences of our actions. I can't stand how there are such detrimental effects of gender on kids. It's so regressive to tell a gay boy, "well because you like to hang around girls more, YOU MUST BE A GIRL!! :)" Just like in Iran, it further makes being gay, lesbian, or bisexual some 'dirty' thing that needs to be 'fixed,' all this LBG erasure is so depressing. On top of all of this, the reasons for transitioning are either due to fetishes, racism, self-hatred, with only a few people actually suffering from gender dysphoria. And those with actual dysphoria need to get therapy, not mutilate and drug their bodies.
Although I am much more critical of all this gender theory, I still feel guilty. Maybe I'm dramatic, but I feel quite lonely at times too. I can't really talk to anyone about these things. All I see nowadays is a new generation being raised by fetishists and hypocrites to hate and destroy their bodies under the guise of progression. I worry for these children, I worry for mine that I plan to have in the future, I worry for society.
Do other GC feminists feel this way?
(Sorry if my post is disorganized)
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