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[–]itsnotaboutewe 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I've had this argument and got dizzy from such tight circling.

Them: I don't feel like a man or a woman. I am non-binary. Me: I don't feel like a man or a woman. I just feel like me. Them: That makes you non-binary. Me: But I don't identify as non-binary. I don't identify with any gender or non-gender, so what am I? Them: If you don't identify as anything then your gender is your birth sex, so you are a woman. Me: But I don't feel like a woman..................

[–]Complicated-Spirit 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I absolutely hate how some people like to “diagnose” others with a gender. Some really do like to push the NB thing on others and it’s just...ugh. I actually had someone on Reddit try to get me to admit I was “agender” and JUST STOP IT. If you had me a card that has boxes on it, I’m not going to check the “best-fitting” box. Even if there’s a million boxes. I’m going to tear the card apart and throw the pieces in your face.