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[–]Tikiri 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’m really sorry this happened to you. Losing a close friend with whom you’ve shared deeply personal stories is always awful. But I also feel strongly (just from my own experience) that if she was a true friend then she would never have cut contact with you like that. It could be a result of different things, but I wonder whether she cut you out of her life because she also agrees with you on some subconscious level, and she does not want to face that? Or she knows trans people i.r.l. and they’ve totally indoctrinated her about how “evil the terfs are” etc., etc. Could be anything ... but ultimately such a fundamental difference in beliefs is not worth sacrificing your own beliefs. I mean, this isn’t about politics or religion, it’s about your very existence as a woman on this planet.