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[–]blahblahgcer 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes. A year ago my childhood best friend and I both identified as nonbinary. I desisted, she did not. A few months after I started reading gc and desisted, I got a fb friend request from a male name I didn't recognize (she changed her last name too I guess) and it was her. I just felt so bad and sad and idk. And every time she posts stuff about trans stuff or about her "bitch egg self" I just feel worse.

Honestly at this point so many of my friends have become trans that it's starting to feel like it's a new friend every month and I don't know how much more I can take. I'm trying to get away from trans things because I now see how harmful it is and it brings back bad memories of why I thought I was trans in the first place and that pain. But I can never get away from it now unless I want to lose everyone. So I have to pretend.