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[–][deleted] 106 insightful - 6 fun106 insightful - 5 fun107 insightful - 6 fun -  (17 children)

The kind of aggressive, emotional reaction that occurs when someone doesn't act or think they way you want them to is cognitive dissonance based in entitlement. Seneca said that the wealthy were far more likely to have an anger response to something not going their way because they felt they had enough money that things should go their way.

[–]MenAreFragileBabies 90 insightful - 3 fun90 insightful - 2 fun91 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Wealth, privilege, entitlement-- yep, sounds like the trans rights movement to me. Funny how much it's like the men's rights movement when you really strip it down to its bare characteristics.

[–][deleted] 65 insightful - 11 fun65 insightful - 10 fun66 insightful - 11 fun -  (1 child)

Don't forget the violation of women's boundaries!

Funny how much it's like the men's rights movement

Hmm, I wish I could put my finger on why. ¯\(ツ)

[–]MenAreFragileBabies 26 insightful - 8 fun26 insightful - 7 fun27 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Hmm, I wish I could put my finger on why. ¯\(ツ)

Gee me too! Hahaha

[–][deleted] 22 insightful - 4 fun22 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Lots of high income incels in IT seem to become trans.

[–]Anandamide 72 insightful - 2 fun72 insightful - 1 fun73 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

Entitlement is the backbone of trans ideology IMO. Not just the demands of transspeak and space access, but medical accommodation. To even consider having non-necessary surgery on a healthy body just to make it match a mental image that never was...how is that not the highest form of vanity? The threats of "Do this or I'll kill myself" just add to the abusive and narcissistic manipulation. Refusing to be gaslit makes them SO angry. I'm no psychologist, but perhaps a person who wants to make irrational demands of everyone around them, mutilate their body, threaten suicide for compliance and violence when they don't get their way isn't mentally healthy, and shouldn't be trusted to make good decisions for themselves or others.

[–]OrneryStruggle 58 insightful - 2 fun58 insightful - 1 fun59 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

To my knowledge there is literally no other mental illness in the DSM where anyone would recommend responding to repeated suicide threats from the patient by capitulating to what they are demanding. Imagine if literally anyone else did that to a medical professional and how they'd be treated.

[–]bellatrixbells 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

They would be thrown in the goddamn loony bin is what would happen to them.
Transition used to be a compromise that a patient went to along with therapy because is often no curing GD. Now it's being presented as a magical cure all and it's creepy AF.

[–]GConly 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Tbh most TIMs never had GD, they are AGP crossdressers.

They used to get filtered out by the psychiatrists.

[–]bellatrixbells 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Quite.

[–]OrneryStruggle 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, exactly.

I think it's basically malpractice to respond affirmatively to suicide threats, as a mental health professional or other health professional, but what do I know.

[–][deleted] 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Anorexics and bipolar people don’t have rich lobbyists and perverts on their sides.

[–]moonlightascending 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

exactly. we don't go around telling people with eating disorders their self-image is correct and they're actually overweight, because that would be immensely harmful. we don't go along with someone's hallucinations when they're schizophrenic. the TRAs are the only people who's delusions are being treated as reality.

[–]OrneryStruggle 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And not only are their delusions being treated as reality, they are getting what they want out of uttering threats. Normally if a mentally unwell person threatens to kill themselves in front of a mental health professional or medical professional, that person is responsible for institutionalizing them until the threat has passed, not giving them stuff they want.

[–][deleted] 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

All disappointment like that is the result of expecting a different result than what we get. Expectations lead directly to misery depending on how hard we hold on to them. The people with the most have the most to lose

[–]Spikygrasspod 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I feel like doctors have some responsibility here for pretending they can construct a sexed body and that the rest of us would go along with it.

[–]LesbiSilly 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Seneca!!! Cries in Ancient History

[–]unsilencedFish 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I love Seneca. I wish more people had a foundation in philosophy and psychology these days.