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[–]Literallyawoman 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think it’s very telling that younger people are being socially conditioned to glorify and broadcast their mental illness along the same taglines they glorify and broadcast their gender identity on social platforms. Now if you suffer from low self esteem you can wear a big red target on you showcasing your insecurities and illnesses so all the narcissists can find you easily. If this had been a thing in my formative years-coming from an abusive background where I was hit but also forced to wear men’s clothes to dampen my own sexuality to appease a jealous and deeply mentally ill mother, I bet I’d think I was trans too to escape and feel special about my pain, and have lots of toxic little friends to validate me while I covered up my mental health and depression being a neurodivergent transman.

[–]Lyssa 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This. I don't get why fragility is so encouraged today and even cultivated. As a collective, humans are the most dangerious species on the planet and we don't treat each others too kindly either. WHY has a whole generation bought into the idea that you should broadcast your vulnerabilites to the world and carefully nourish them instead of trying to become stronger and more independent?

It's a way of lifte that's bound to lead to many very rhough awakenings.

There is a time and place for revealing vulnerable information about yourself. And your twitter bio ain't it.

[–]RestingWitchface 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is so true! Increasingly, it seems that young people are placing the burden of their mental health on others, rather than take responsibility for it themselves.

The strongest people I know are the ones who have been to hell and back. Falling apart at being called the wrong pronoun suggests a lack of life experience, which is to be expected in young people. But we are not helping those young people become resilient by pandering to their every wish.