Tra/qt how is ‘examine your genital preference’ not homosexual conversion therapy?

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[–]BiologyIsReal 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

This is not about what you personally do, but what trans identified people in general do. And it turns out that a good deal of them intentionally seek out people whose sexual orientation makes them impossible partners, e.g. males who say they are "women" trying to date lesbians. It turns that many trans identified people are so set in chasing an imposible partnership and ignoring other people's boundaries that they are willing to go "stealth". It turns out that many trans identified people on so offended by being rejected (in spite of SEXual orientation being based on biological sex, not "gender identity"), that they are very keen on threathening, pressuring into sex or punishing in any other way people who are not willing to play along with "trans" identities in the bed.

We don’t choose to be trans. Christ you think I wouldn’t be a cis woman if I could? If it were an option I certainly wouldn’t be a trans women.

That is absurd, you cannot know this. You've no idea what it means to be a woman because you're not one. This sounds a lot like a "the grass is always greener on the other side" kind of deal.

[–]circlingmyownvoid2 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This is not about what you personally do, but what trans identified people in general do.

I’m far from a unique case. Plenty of partnered or otherwise not looking people are asking the question so it’s not about just getting dates.

How would I not know what I would choose? Given the option I certainly wouldn’t be a trans women. But it’s not a choice and that’s my entire point.

[–]BiologyIsReal 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’m far from a unique case. Plenty of partnered or otherwise not looking people are asking the question so it’s not about just getting dates.

You're right. It's not only about dates. It's also about "validation" and punishing disenting women, too. Even so, a good deal it's about dates.

How would I not know what I would choose? Given the option I certainly wouldn’t be a trans women. But it’s not a choice and that’s my entire point.

Yes, you've made perfectly clear what you don0't want to be. I meant you cannot know that you want to be a woman because you don't know what it is to live as a woman because you're not one. And you anything that women tell you about our experiences that may contradict your views.