The vast majority of your examples have been of trans people being treated in accordance with their 'birth' sex though, so, again, I don't know what point you think you're proving.

I can also give examples of trans people not being treated in accordance to their birth sex, even when it is known.

• Trystan Cotten is a black trans man and a professor of gender studies at California State University Stanislaus. Pre-transition he worked at another university and was harassed by males. The university reacted immediately, even sending a police escort with him to and from campus. After transition he worked at this university and was harassed by a female student he was mentoring, and his adviser and the dean — both women — laughed it off. Why the difference in responses?

• When late Stanford neuroscientist Ben Barres transitioned from female to male, people took his ideas more seriously and he was able to complete a whole sentence without being interrupted by a man.

• Before Zander Keig transitioned, he was an outspoken radical feminist. He spoke up often, loudly and with confidence, and was even encouraged to. People told him "Oh, yeah, speak up, speak out." After transition, he was given direct and indirect messages that he was "mansplaining," "taking up too much space" or "asserting his white male heterosexual privilege" even though he's a 1st generation Mexican American and married to same woman he was married to prior to transition. He also says some women expect him to concede more now and let them speak first, let them board the bus first, let them sit down first, and so on. He also says men in public spaces are more collegial to him which they express through verbal and nonverbal messages: head lifting when passing him on the sidewalk and calling him "brother" and "boss man"

"I find the assertion that I am now unable to speak out on issues I find important offensive and I refuse to allow anyone to silence me. My ability to empathize has grown exponentially, because I now factor men into my thinking and feeling about situations. Prior to my transition, I rarely considered how men experienced life or what they thought, wanted or liked about their lives. I have learned so much about the lives of men through my friendships with men, reading books and articles by and for men and through the men I serve as a licensed clinical social worker."

"As a former lesbian feminist, I was put off by the way that some women want to be treated by me, now that I am a man, because it violates a foundational belief I carry, which is that women are fully capable human beings who do not need men to acquiesce or concede to them."

• Alex Poon is a project manager at Wayfair. When he transitioned and was perceived by others as male, people assumed he had logic, advice and seniority. He has been in meetings where everyone else in the room was a woman and more senior, yet he still got asked, "Alex, what do you think? We thought you would know." He was at an all-team meeting with 40 people, and he was recognized by name for his team's accomplishments. Whereas next to him, there was another successful team led by a woman, but she was never mentioned by name. Pre-transition when he asked a question, people often gave him vague or roundabout answers. One person even told him "If you just Googled it, you would know." But now that he's read as a man, people give him direct and clear answers, even if it means they have to do some research on their own before getting back to him.

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• James Ward is a lawyer in San Francisco. One day in court, Ward and his opposing counsel were making a big request to a judge. Ward knew their question would not go over well, so he wasn’t surprised when she reprimanded both him and his opposing counsel for asking. What he didn’t expect was for the opposing counsel lean over to him and call the judge the c-word. “We weren’t out the courtroom door when he said that to me under his breath,” Ward says. “He never would have said that when I was female.”

• Mitch Davis is now a director of organizational development at Planned Parenthood Federation of America in New York City, but he’s worked in HR for many different companies since coming out eight years ago. In one previous job, he heard his boss call female colleagues “old cows” and refer to a middle-aged job applicant as “Dame Edna” after she’d left an interview. “Evidently men say things like that to each other all the time,” he says.

• Cameron Combs, an IT consultant in Olympia, Washington says he’s heard male colleagues do “appraisals” of women in the office or observe how female co-workers used their “womanly wiles” to rise up the ladder, conversations he never would have heard when he was a woman.

• James Gardner is a newscaster in Victoria, Canada, who had been reading the news as Sheila Gardner for almost three decades before he transitioned at 54. As soon as he began hosting as a man, he stopped getting as many calls from men pointing out tiny errors.

• Dana Delgardo is a family nurse practitioner and Air Force captain. Since his transition, he’s noticed that his female patients are less open with him about their sexual behavior, but his bosses give him more responsibility. “All of a sudden, I’m the golden child,” he says. “I have been with this company for 6 years, no ever recommended me for management. Now I’m put into a managerial position where I could possibly be a regional director.”

Transgender Men See Sexism From Both Sides

Yes, male people in general are more likely to be victims of homicide than female people.

Male victims of homicide usually are involved in violent crime or some other dispute (i.e. owe debts). In contrast, trans women are killed at random when someone knows or finds out they're trans. See r/ThisHappens.

Pointing out transmen are treated as women ≠ complaining that no one listens to transmen. Not agreeing with transmen ≠ not listening to transmen.

But trans men said a million times they are not always treated as women and that they did not transition to escape sexism, but GCs always say otherwise. That is not listening to trans men.

So transmen want to be classified as women?

Many want to be classified as men and males. Some will classify themselves as female men. I will respect however they choose to identify.

There are female detransitioners on r/detrans who considered themselves transmen for a very long time, I would read what they have to say rather than ask my opinion.

There are also trans men who remain trans all their lives and say transitioning was the right choice for them. Why do detransitioners opinions matter more than those who who never intend to detransition?

You cannot reasonably make this claim considering research on detransition rates is actively suppressed. The article also touches on how it was difficult for the researcher to find detransitioners to participate in his study because 'they felt too traumatised to talk about it'.

Detransition is rare. In a 2015 survey of nearly 28,000 people conducted by the U.S.-based National Center for Transgender Equality, only 8 percent of respondents reported detransitioning. 62 percent of those people said they only detransitioned temporarily. The most common reason for detransitioning, according to the survey, was pressure from a parent, while only 0.4 percent of respondents said they detransitioned after realizing transitioning wasn’t right for them.

Media's 'detransition' narrative is fueling misconceptions, trans advocates say