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[–]worried19[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I would bet it's almost impossible to find a man under 30 who has never seen porn. The main thing for me is that my partner not be aroused by violence or abuse. We haven't talked about it in depth since we were 19, but he told me outright he doesn't like or watch that. I believe him. His history and behavior has always reflected that. Of course that doesn't mean that even "nice" commercial porn is ethical. That's why I quit. Going on a site like Pornhub supports a site that hosts abusive content even if you don't actually watch videos with abusive sex.