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[–]anxietyaccount8 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah, that's an extreme reaction but I guess they thought there's a lot of available men who have not seen porn before? Maybe in some older generations, but the young adults of Gen Z have no choice but to form a relationship with someone who's seen it. Even men in older generations have seen it too (according to statistics)

[–]worried19[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I would bet it's almost impossible to find a man under 30 who has never seen porn. The main thing for me is that my partner not be aroused by violence or abuse. We haven't talked about it in depth since we were 19, but he told me outright he doesn't like or watch that. I believe him. His history and behavior has always reflected that. Of course that doesn't mean that even "nice" commercial porn is ethical. That's why I quit. Going on a site like Pornhub supports a site that hosts abusive content even if you don't actually watch videos with abusive sex.