Serious question: Why are so many supposedly "straight" men into being cucked by lesbians or being used/exploited by queer women?

submitted by Mcheetah from self.AskSaidIt

Why are supposedly heterosexual men into queer-women cuckoldry and being abused by dykes?

Aka, the "B" in the Snowflake Alphabet soup. (This is a long rant, but none of this other stuff here beyond the title is necessary reading. You can skip it, if you wish.)

I seriously don't fucking get this and I never have. I mean, I'm an abnormality of a human being supposedly because I don't watch/like porn, I think sexual degeneracy should be publicly shamed and ridiculed, I think self-improvement should be something everyone strives for (regardless how many mistakes you make,) and I don't like celebrating failure or weakness like "body positivity" or "fat acceptance" or any of that loser shit.

But I seriously do not get the uber-cucks for adult males who like being exploited and used by lesbians. It's like, a female says she's queer, and the man gets excited by that. Turned on by the prospect of this lesbian cheating on him with another lesbian, in their fake relationship. Or the idea he can watch on the edge of the bed as two lesbians go down on each other. This lesbian cuckoldry fantasy even predates modern woke culture. I remember in the 90s some guys were into this literally gay shit, too. They used to use the French term ménage à trois for their lesbian cuck fantasies, though.

WHY are so many supposedly "heterosexual, masculine" men into cuckoldry via lesbian? I have never fucking understood this shit. It's just as bizarre as the men who like sticking their dick up someone's shitter and then try to act like anal sex isn't degenerate, emasculating, or one of the most fucked-up things you can do in the bedroom. That's legitimately how men get raped in prison and we have supposedly "straight" men acting like shit-dicking is "normal" and "shouldn't be shamed" when you're literally smearing your dick in shit, up someone's rectum, as if that's not exactly what you're doing, here.

No; you are prison-bitch if you do anal, and being turned on by lesbian cuckoldry is just as shameful. Even most women aren't into dating or sleeping with homosexual men; why the FUCK are so many so-called "males" into this?!

I get everyone under 35 nowadays seems like a collection of losers, failures, degenerates, self-pitying victims, and excuse-makers who like to "celebrate" their vices and failures, instead of working on self-improvement and sobriety, which is how we get terms like "fatphobic," phrases like "don't kink-shame," and people proud of their mental illnesses. But being proud to be a loser/pervert/degenerate, seems more like a feminist/woke thing; the "Don't kink-shame me" faggotry usually only comes from pedophiles, soyboys, and losers. Yet so many supposedly "straight, masculine, conservative" men also have these fucked-up queer cuck fantasies and desires, as well. WHY?!?

Like I said, I don't even watch/like porn though, so maybe I'm the "weird" one here for not being a sexual degenerate. But I don't respect this, and I don't think I'm the only one like myself to have actual ethics, morals, and standards for humanity, either.

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[–]passionflounder 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Being what was once accepted as "normal" has become extremely demonized and few people have the courage to accept the label of bigot or ____-phobe.

[–]Mcheetah[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Thank you, yes. But why are even supposedly "conservative," "anti-woke" males also this hypocritical by being into degeneracy such as getting cucked by queer women or performing anal sex? I'm only in my 30s, but I remember when all of this stuff used to make you a social pariah and people used to actually still have shame.

[–]passionflounder 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

why are even supposedly "conservative," "anti-woke" males also this hypocritical by being into degeneracy

Too many aren't thinking for themselves. Backtracking and apologizing for an "incorrect" opinion or arbitrary accusations of "hate" fixes nothing and emboldens bad players because it indicates weakness.

Simply put, the left who promotes the sexual perversion is straight up acting as bullies. Collectively, we're too afraid to call them out in part because media is part of the problem. Publicizing "wrong-think" anti-woke opinions comes at the risk of being financially destroyed by adverse publicity as bigger corporate employers latch on the Communist China-style ESG-score system which I believe is being used by major financial institutions as part of assessing entities' eligibility for having accounts, taking low interest short term loans and functioning in the economy.

People's sins against wokeness can hit social media which those employers can dig up. Such behavior can and will be used to asses the employability of applicants as well as an employee's suitability for promotion. Of course, when downsizing time hits, guess who will be first in line for layoffs?

Basically, Fascism.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

It's viewed as a performance act, similar to porn but because it's not with another man it doesn't "count."

[–]Mcheetah[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Cuckoldry is cuckoldry. If these men think it "doesn't count" just because their fake lesbian "partner" emasculated them (even further) with the person her heart and genitals truly desires, another woman, as opposed to another male paypig, then these men are truly more pathetic and pitiful than I thought. Thanks.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't disagree.

[–]weavilsatemyface 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you actually believe even one single word of that, you're sick in the head. You need help.

Every time I see one of your posts now, I'm going to remember that you are a true sexual degenerate.

[–]iamonlyoneman 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not reading your wall of text, but the title implies you think it is true, which means you need to take a LONG break from cooming to internet porn

[–]Hematomato 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sometimes the brain cross-wires sexual arousal to another strong emotion, like disgust or terror or humiliation.

We don't know why this happens, but it isn't a cultural phenomenon. It's been happening at least since we started writing and almost certainly before.

Treating it as a moral issue is a lot like saying "Goddamn it Otto, you have lupus."

[–]weavilsatemyface 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think sexual degeneracy should be publicly shamed and ridiculed ...

so maybe I'm the "weird" one here for not being a sexual degenerate.

Don't fool yourself mate, your extreme homophobia (assuming it is genuine and not just trolling) is not normal. Not even for sexually repressed heterosexual males.

So is it okay if I shame and ridicule your sexual deviancy? Or should I treat you with respect by actually answering your questions?

Why are supposedly heterosexual men into queer-women cuckoldry and being abused by dykes?

Answer: they aren't. This is all in your imagination.

I remember in the 90s some guys were into this literally gay shit, too. They used to use the French term ménage à trois for their lesbian cuck fantasies, though.

Thinking that a man having sex with two women is "gay" is some of the gayest shit I've ever seen. Fuck's sake.

When I was a 15 year old boy, insecure in my masculinity, scared that people would think I was a "poofter", I thought that sex with two men and one woman was perverted because what if the two guys like accidentally touched each other or something? II mean that's just idiotic, but what can I say, I was just a teenaged boy. But the idea of having sex with two women makes you gay is just fucked up.

WHY are so many supposedly "heterosexual, masculine" men into cuckoldry via lesbian?

This is your mental illness speaking. They aren't.

It's just as bizarre as the men who like sticking their dick up someone's shitter and then try to act like anal sex isn't degenerate, emasculating, or one of the most fucked-up things you can do in the bedroom.

Oooh, sounds like somebody is suffering from massive denial.

Pro-tip: as soon as you use the word "emasculating" to describe the active participant in anal sex (the person doing the penetrating), your credibility drops down the toilet, never to be seen again.

you're literally smearing your dick in shit

Not if you do it right. Jeez man, cleanliness is a thing you know. But my guess is your cock is probably covered in years worth of smegma because "its gay to touch yourself down there", amirite?

I don't even watch/like porn though

Well there's your problem. So repressed, so frigid, so terrified of your own sexuality, I wouldn't be surprised to learn that you've never even had an erection while awake.