Hypothetically, what would a athletic, fit, handsome guy who's between 6'1" and 6'5" have to be in order for the majority of modern women to not be attracted to him? (Not about me.)

submitted by Mcheetah from self.AskSaidIt

There was a comment online about how hard it is for men in the modern dating world with how shitty modern women were, and one guy who was 24, 6'2" and a semi-professional tennis player and handsome-looking was whining about how "height doesn't matter with women," cause he can't get a date, either. He was metaphorically laughed out of the room. I assumed he had to literally be gay (as in, an actual homosexual.)

What would it take for a hypothetical 6'2" Chad to not be attractive to modern women?

I legit can't figure it out, cause even beta-Chads like Will Smith still have gold diggers chasing them.

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[–]topiary2 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Nice. That's it. Apparently that is their biggest "ick" in a guy. I assume they think this conveys weakness? Who really knows with women logic.

Next to being nice, women also hate men who are boring and predictable. We call it orderly, but it is pussy repellant.

I can go on, but it would be ideal to determine the type of women you speak of and their stage of life because that also plays a major role since the figurative undesirable male person you mentioned would be ignored by women from one realm but accepted by women from another realm

[–]Mcheetah[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wouldn't a genuinely decent man still be seen as a target for a gold digger, or at least as a fuck-buddy to these women (even if a genuinely decent man wouldn't be into that?)

[–]binaryblob 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So, what you are saying is that I should invite women to go to international waters under a Somalian flag for a first date?

[–]EternalSunset 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Literally be covered in feces from head to toe 24/7, but maybe not even that as there probably would still be some shit fetishists chasing him.

[–]winkot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Your future success doesn't exist, never will. Instead of pretending the world makes sense, do small acts of random rebellion against the system.

[–]makesyoudownvote 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't know if things have changed, but in my day that wasn't NEARLY enough. I couldn't get girls for the life of me.

  • I'm 6'2"

  • I was a millionaire by age 20 (This was 15-20 years ago so millionaire actually meant something at that time)

  • I drove a really nice luxury/sports car

  • My brother and uncle were both male models. My brother for Abercrombie and Fitch and my uncle was Play Girl man of the year. I'm not far off from them looks wise.

  • I played water polo in high school and college did triathlons. I was a beach lifeguard in my teens. I had a six pack until I was 26. I was FIT.

  • I had a reputation for having a big donger because of some pictures of me in a speedo. It's not really very big, just very slightly above the national average. I just got lucky with the photos.

My game though was AWFUL. It wasn't until I watched Real Social Dynamics (their early stuff was really helpful, later stuff not so much) that I finally started being able to pull women. I think I did best while actually being slightly overweight.

These things you are listing are not the end all be all, they are just going to make it a lot easier IF YOU HAVE GAME because girls are more likely to reply to your first messages. That and they are more likely to want to bring you around her friends which you need to do for social proof. Immature girls especially want validation in the guys they date. Validation from their friends.

The other thing that helped was I was a filmmaker and at the time social media influencers were not a thing so being able to put a girl in a movie was kinda a big deal. That definitely got me laid a couple of times, but less than you'd think.

[–]winkot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"He was metaphorically laughed out of the room."

Says everything about the people trying to laugh, nothing about him.

The question is what would it take for a 6'2 10/10 face looking guy to BE attractive to women, considering the only people they validate are human garbage that has no redeemable qualities at all, yet no matter how much that guy tries or what he suffers he will never get the validation that they got for barely putting in the 60 IQ actions into their interactions with the women who decided to effortlessly validate them?

Step 1 stop imagining there's opportunities.

Step 2 stop imagining that a "loser" will ever attract women.

[–]Voater 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Women can get away with being more crazy the more attractive they are. It's the same for men but with money. If Will Smith was broke his attitude would matter. Since he has money, he can be crazy. Kanye has a lot of money.

[–]winkot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Ahh good to know you're still braindead and stuck swallowing chad's cum and regurgitating the same redpiller talking points.

[–]Voater 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lol, you think you have an opinion that matters.

[–]BanditMcFuklebuck 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

incel mentality. Pathetic mewling about how great they are and how much attention they deserve. Gives any personality a bad smell honestly....

[–]Rah 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Women are shit test machine guns. They will throw all sorts of tests to see what fits. The height test is a shit test. She does not care as long as you are not a manlet. If you cater to their whim, they will know the man will try their best to cater to their wishes.