My girlfriend has her ex's full name tattooed on her butt. Would that be a turn off/deal breaker for you?

submitted by CrushedOnIce from self.AskSaidIt

1 feel quite uncomfortable seeing it but I am not sure what to do or if my feelings are normal. It’s his first and last name and is the only tattoo on her body, which seems to make it worse for some rreason.

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[–]SMCAB 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I'd run. Not because of the tattoo itself. But what it represents. A person that would tattoo something like that on their body is most likely not well adjusted. It screams of this "all or nothing," "together forever," "fairy tale" attitude that isn't based in reality. The funny thing is, the attitude is what causes these people to not be together in the first place. You see, that woman saw this as an incredible gesture of love, and a neurotypical person sees this as a massive redflag. I'd bet dollars to donuts she doesn't act capable of an adult relationship.

An adult acting woman would never tattoo my name on her ass, but her capability of loving me correctly is far and above any woman who would.

[–]jet199 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Depends

Are you avoiding women who make obviously bad choices or are you actively seeking them out?

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Every man just wants a woman who makes only one bad choice.

[–]noshore4me 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Nah, I'd still fuck your girlfriend... tattoo or not.

[–]TaseAFeminist4Jesus 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I was expecting a Reddit link.

Sorry your girlfriend has "Russell" on her ass. He must be a Chad.

[–]Tom_Bombadil 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Ask her to update the tattoo with a strikethrough, and then add your name to the roster.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Tattoo removal is a thing, or covering it up.

[–]jet199 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Or changing your name so it matches

[–]Alphix 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is the answer.

[–]LarrySwinger2 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

That's great. When you do anal, it's like you're fucking her ex.

[–]carn0ld03 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Would it turn me off? I can't say I'd care much if her blood work turned up clean. If anything, it would just give me something to aim for when I pull out, but even if she's otherwise behaving properly I wouldn't let the relationship advance until sometime after she underwent laser tattoo removal of her own accord.

[–]Canbot 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You should not take advice from people who think one detail about someone is enough information to draw conclusions, or even make assumptions. If the tattoo bothers you tell your girlfriend and offer to pay for it to be removed or covered up.

If you have the option find a virgin.

[–]ID10T 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Ahahaha. Wife her obviously. 🙄

[–]Maggotus 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Get a permanent sharpie and black it out every time you slammin....

[–]Mcheetah 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes; that's a dealbreaker to me cause only a cuck would be fine seeing that on her (besides that, it kinda proves she's stupid as well and makes bad decisions.)

Doubly yes if her ex was a female.

And no only if me and the ex had the same name.

Though I'm not sure if this is a troll post or not.

[–]SoCo 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Depends on if her ass is big enough to set your beer on the tattoo and cover it up, so you don't have to start at it while plowing her.

[–]RandomlyGenerated 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’d do a coverup. Every time.