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Do you have realize what a ridiculous human being you are, and what power the internet has over you? by vcardthrow1 in TruFemcels

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Twitter is designed to make you angry, because the more you interact with stuck up people the longer you'll stay on the site.

People almost never change their opinions from debating with others, in fact the best way for someone to change their opinion is to read or listen a debate between two people. Debates and arguments are hard to follow on platforms like Twitter, which is why using the site is a big waste of time. Platforms like Reddit and Saidit offer users more nuance.

I recommend watching this video about quitting Twitter: I'm Glad To Not Be Using Twitter Anymore ( + Six Reasons to Quit). The video creator is a 5'3 young man with tourettes, so he had similar experiences with stuck up people ignoring or talking over him on Twitter. Once he quit his mental health greatly improved!

Long time no talk, how's the new place? by [deleted] in TruFemcels

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I don't think we'll ever 100% leave saidit. Saidit is a great backup.

Is thepinkpill.co down?

by HornyToad to /s/TruFemcels from self.TruFemcels

Is http://www.thepinkpill.co/ down?

by HornyToad to /s/TruFemcels from self.TruFemcels

The loving husband. by Lady_Montgomery in BlackPillFeminism

[–]HornyToad 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Dumb recommendations? From a therapist? That's never happened before /s

Traumatic experiences are things you share with your therapist ONLY! Men either resent or get off on the idea of their partner being abused.

The TruFemcels Website Update and Donations by Gigababejfl in TruFemcels

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Ok I'm sorry but I've been going slightly crazy as I research crypto, it looks like it's technically possible to trace the donations of bitcoin and eth. Do you accept monero?

The TruFemcels Website Update and Donations by Gigababejfl in TruFemcels

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Can we donate using bitcoin or ethereum? If the site is hacked I don't want anyone knowing my credit card number or who I am. I'm already cringey enough around my immediate family and my zoomer cousin would never stop belittling me if she knew I posted on "incel-adjacent" sites. 🤡

The Harpy Comic by pocketss Updated!! 😭💗🙏 by HornyToad in TruFemcels

[–]HornyToad[S] 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I absolutely love this comic!!! I want a whole series about the ugly harpy monsters and Becky witches!!

I remember seeing someone post the first part of the comic on trufemcels and I fell in love with the idea! 💗

I'm off to maladaptive daydream about fantasy worlds now~~🤩

The Harpy Comic by pocketss Updated!! 😭💗🙏

by HornyToad to /s/TruFemcels from pocketss.tumblr.com

Since y'all are going to your own site, I just wanted to say Bye. by [deleted] in TruFemcels

[–]HornyToad 9 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

This reminds me of bluepilled Beckies and Stacies and makes me laugh. Even if this was a joke against us it really does capture the dumb advice we've been given all our lives.

One group of Beckies will tell us to "smile more" or "put yourself out there" and the other group of Beckies will insult our looks in front of our faces and openly laugh at us.

I officially have a sleep disorder by HornyToad in TruFemcels

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Thank you feelinveryblue, I've been trying to push for jaw surgery but the covid pandemic really wrecked my life. I lost my job and had to use up savings and I can't even go to the doctor easily because I'm immunocompromised and if I catch covid I could end up on a ventilator.

My life is a joke. At this rate I'm going to have to wait until I'm 35 to look normal and start dating. I haven't even had my first kiss because I was excluded in high school and isolated in college. I lived so many years in my head that my youth passed me by and I only realized like 300 days ago that I'm extremely socially maladapted due to my looks and mental state.

Life is so cruel. I wish my parents had known about my bad health when I was a teenager so I could have gotten treatment under their insurance. I wish they would have paid for me to get plastic surgery too, but I can't blame them since money was tight.

It hurts to think about what my life would be like if I had gotten double jaw surgery when I was a teenager. I would look normal, and I might have even had a boyfriend by now.

One of my fears about relationships is I think that people become too weird and introverted to have a healthy relationship if they don't already have one before their late twenties...I'm already weird and ugly but I feel like I become weirder and more bizarre each passing year.

Even when I get my surgeries I don't think I'll be a good or even competent girlfriend.

Done with life by [deleted] in TruFemcels

[–]HornyToad 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Men can just as easily create an onlyfans page and suck dick for money. In fact, they probably would get more money than the average looking woman. The CEO of OnlyFans is a gay man. Gay men in general have more disposable income to spend.

Why don't men prostitute themselves if it's so much fun and so lucrative? 🤔 All these men who recommend porn and prostitution never have experience in selling themselves to others. Strange, that.

I officially have a sleep disorder by HornyToad in TruFemcels

[–]HornyToad[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

vcardthrow1 thank you so much for your compassion and wise words! I'm actively looking in to insurance coverage but it takes forever to actually get approved. 😭

I won't diminish it at all. I have a botched rhinoplasty and breathing issues...I grind at night and it's destroyed my teeth.

vcardthrow1, I know you've been actively searching for a cure to your predicament and you probably already know this, but have you visited an ENT doctor? Perhaps they could prescribe a septoplasty or even a rhinoplasty to resolve your condition? I've heard of many normal women with nasal issues that have a septoplasty covered by their health insurance. Isn't it a running joke that celebrities explain that they had a rhinoplasty because of their "deviated septum"? Dual septoplasty/rhinoplasty surgeries are quite common.

I'm not sure how doctors or an insurance would react to the fact that your issues were caused by a rhinoplasty, but there has to be some way for you to get help!!!

The fact that you have bruxism means your breathing issue is really serious and could be a sleep disorder!

Here's what I suggest in order to get (possible) insurance assistance:

Visit an ENT and explain that your breathing issue causes poor sleep. The ENT should refer you to visit a sleep specialist. You should be prescribed a sleep study. If the sleep study comes back indicating you have UARS or sleep apnea then you have a diagnosable condition that your health insurance likely covers. Sleep disorders like sleep apnea and UARS are only solved with a CPAP machine or nasal/jaw surgery.

Doctors prescribe CPAP machines first because they're not invasive, but if the patient doesn't see any improvement that's when they submit a claim to insurance for surgery.

Just another femcel burden, your body guarantees you a life of sadness and probably a life of physical/medical stress on top of it.

😭😭😭 I'm so fucking tired of everything. Life is just one bad surprise after another. It's like an exponential graph that only shoots downwards. Every day I feel listless, especially since coronavirus began.

Hoping you find a solution 🙏

I officially have a sleep disorder by HornyToad in TruFemcels

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kwallio, I really urge you to go to r/jawsurgery on Reddit. If you have sleep apnea your jaw surgery will be covered by your health insurance. There are only two "cures" for obstructive sleep apnea: using a CPAP for the rest of your life or getting jaw surgery.

I urge you to consider getting jaw surgery! The recovery is hard but it can really ascend you AND solve your sleep disorder! I have started my process of jaw surgery but it will take around two years for me to actually get the surgery after insurance and orthodontics are completed. 🤡

Remember, OSA only gets worse and worse as we get older. It's a progressive condition and it's covered by health insurance. You absolutely should get jaw surgery ASAP. Even if it didn't make people look better, I would still recommend jaw surgery because poor sleep is directly linked to depression and memory issues.

I officially have a sleep disorder by HornyToad in TruFemcels

[–]HornyToad[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Just because it's common doesn't mean it's harmless. Untreated sleep apnea increases the likelihood of obesity, memory issues, high blood pressure, Alzheimer's, and stroke. In children it's related to ADD, ADHD, anxiety, and depression.

The only cure is sleeping with a CPAP machine for the rest of your life or getting double jaw surgery.

Just because you can sleep on your side doesn't mean you're healthy. Your brain is not getting enough oxygen when you sleep. It's a silent killer.

But yes, most doctors don't care. It's sad.

I officially have a sleep disorder

by HornyToad to /s/TruFemcels from self.TruFemcels

The TruFemcels and AskTruFemcels subs on Reddit has been banned. by Gigababejfl in TruFemcels

[–]HornyToad 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Reddit says the sub is "deleted" but my reddit account still has all the karma from my posts on the trufemcels sub? Why does my account still have karma?

I can't wait until our new site is up. The wait is torture! 😩😩😩 by Gigababejfl in TruFemcels

[–]HornyToad 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Gigababe how much are you paying for this??

My conspiracy theory behind why femcel subs were banned. by IosifStalin in TruFemcels

[–]HornyToad 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah that's pretty standard moid behavior

As much as I disagree with the alt-right and Republicans on this website they don't really care that we're here. For that I'm thankful.

I got banned from a plastic surgery sub because I'm a femcel by [deleted] in TruFemcels

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We should make a plastic surgery sub on saidit run by women. Just the VAST amount of pitfalls that plastic surgery has is nauseating. It's legal for a doctor with NO plastic surgery training to perform cosmetic procedures in the US!!!