The TruFemcels and AskTruFemcels subs on Reddit has been banned.

submitted by Gigababejfl from self.TruFemcels

It has been maybe three days since we announced on the sub that Trufemcels was being targeted again and we launched the TruFemcels Discord server in the event it did happen.

Neither sub broke any rules but that will never stop moids on Reddit from lying and spreading false information. As always, malicious and ban worthy moid subs are left alone or quarantined and our subs are not. I welcome you to our alternative space here on SaidIt where you are free to be without persecution to discuss your difficulties as a lonely and unattractive woman. We will be launching our site soon and I'd love to see you there.

I'm sorry to those who feel pain and frustration about what happened. It was always out of our hands because we will always be held to different and unfair standards.

We will do everything we can to build and secure your online home. In the meantime, let every femcel you know where to find us. We will continue to commune here, on Discord, and soon our own site.

Love you always,

👑 Gx.

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[–]Boh 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (28 children)

Reddit does it again. Getting a women’s safe space banned. Sad

[–]Gigababejfl[S] 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (27 children)

I'll never know what their problem is.

[–]jet199 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (26 children)

They hate you for what you are.

It's quite simple.

It's called misogyny.

[–]Gigababejfl[S] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (25 children)

maybe so but anytime this is mentioned, its dismissed as a lie.

[–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Open up s/EthnicDatingStrategy chud

[–]Node 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (23 children)

They hate me because I'm [innocuous reason]

Deflection is a psychological defense mechanism that people use to take the blame off of themselves. There's generally a behavioral issue causing adverse reactions.

[–]Gigababejfl[S] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (22 children)

Unnecessary hot take. It's annoying to have to defend yourself against dismissal and silencing all day. We just got here so no thanks.

[–]Node 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (21 children)

You're "too new" to engage in discussions? If you make the sub private, then no outsiders will see your public comments or claims, and you'll be able to say anything you like without people wanting to respond.

[–]Gigababejfl[S] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (20 children)

Was that discussion you were seeking with this comment? I couldn't tell.

Also thanks for the heads up for the privacy feature. Sub is opened for the displaced femcels. Never even occurred to me this same sort of thing where random people lecture you on Reddit would be here as well but I suppose that makes sense.

[–]Node 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Was that discussion you were seeking with this comment?

More like debate, maybe. I really disagreed with jet199s claims, but you being the OP and having a seemingly less rigid stance led me to reply to you instead. There were several comments on the page that appeared to reflect mental disorders I passed by, because it was obvious no rational discussion would be possible. But you get those on any topic.

/s/HolocaustSkepticism - Saw this private sub mentioned yesterday. That splash page is all you'll see when trying to go to a private sub while not whitelisted.

reddit, rukkus (sp), poal, phuks, saidit, and voat have all worked this way. Unless your sub is set to private, all of your posts appear on the 'all' page. The only complaints I've had have been from the Qtards/Qultists/Qews/Q-followers, and I suspect their cult has a script because it's always a variation of "why are you here?" Uh, because you posted this to 'all' and it was right there when I scrolled down?

Anyway, I respond to any post or comment on any topic when I feel like I have something to say, and disagreements can be particularly interesting when you find someone willing to defend their claims or opinions. If you were saying Trump needs to let Biden take office as his final criminal act before "the arrests" begin, I might be strongly inclined to reply. The flat earthers are pretty interesting too, when you find one that can be semi-rational.

They hate you for what you are. It's called misogyny.

This claim appears to fit the pattern of substituting an innocuous and non-offensive reason in place of the real reason, which is usually a behavior. "I was arrested for [just speaking the truth]", when in reality, it was because they were shouting and breaking stuff after being told to gtfo. "They hate me for [being a guy]", when it's actually because you keep peeing on the seat.

Do you have examples of non-behavior based misogyny in people who aren't mentally ill? I mean, I'm not seeing "simply being female" as offensive enough to warrant actual hate. Change my mind?

[–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

Stop posting copy pastas

[–]Node 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

The reply below is pretty revealing. Is that a typical example of a 'femcel'?

[–]Gigababejfl[S] 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

Look dude. Not really interested in engaging with you, tbh. Idk what it is about some of you guys that think a woman's day needs to be spent explaining ourselves to you. We are what we are. Don't understand the fascination. And no quotes are need around the word femcel.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

That person literally posted this 2 days ago:

I hate femoids

Good, thots and their cunt gross

You could've taken 2 seconds out of your day to check his post history, the user you're engaging with is a troll. But your immediate conclusion was that he was a femcel. Ok

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A lot of us search by r/all so we see everything not purposely excluded in subreddit settings.

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        [–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        s/pinkpillfeminism

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        The tone policing is spectacular tbh.

        [–]Intuit 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

        Incels also don't exist

        It's like people who post items for sale and say item must go, but then are asking a high price. Anyone can find a fuckbuddy, it's just a question of whether their standards match their desirability.

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

        Let this be a reminder that this community isn't interested in casual sex so repeatedly bringing it up is pointless

        [–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        Mmm

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

        When we tell people this is how it is and these moids cry victim all over the site, we are told its not true. How is it possible that majority of the female subs are taken down and the male subs are just fine? No one honest could claim that they incited any sort of issue.

        [–]QStorm55 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

        You know that feeling you get when you know something is going to happen but when it does happen you are still sad, shocked, and a bit ragey. That's me right now.

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        Yes. I had that feeling when I made the discord. Despite never knowing how and knowing it would be clunky. I had the same feeling last night but with fury. The post about conservatives getting to act like the manosphere. let this be a reminder that all those male subs full of rage an hate are still thriving and the tame ass femcel subreddits labeled hate and taken down. Like life as a bw brought online.

        We will be enjoying a thriving site where the community will continue to live in peace because I see no reason why a community that was needed and not remarkable in any way allowed to be banned for no reason.

        But I have to say.. seeing you here really made my day. It truly is an encouragement. At the end of the day, all I care about is finding my tribe and making sure we can all find each other and commiserate. This nonsense being bullied by men on Reddit and wherever else.. it does not compute.

        [–]bobbobbybob 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        That's most of the world, tbh

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        That's still me. There is so much to it.

        So here's a different question. Know any helpful developers?

        [–]Tallcel 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

        Again we pay for men’s actions. Femcels are nothing like incels. But because men are violent and dangerous we can’t have our own space to share our own views. We aren’t even being radical most of the time. We simply are women supporting each other and having discussions. So annoying that it’s been banned. Thanks for setting this up.

        [–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

        Np

        [–]antempirez 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

        I'm curious there will also be another AskTruFemcels here on SaidIt? It's so stupid that subs like TruFemcels get banned when there's obviously far worse, but we already know they only target subs that are problems for them because they're male.

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

        Yes there will be. It's actually up now, just no information on it yet. But it will be run the same way, the community is welcome and we can also still be found on Discord. Yes, its crazy how Reddit chooses to operate with our subs but it's okay. For people who want community, we will still be here.

        [–]dommecelle 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

        Please give us a head's up when the new comm is up and running! Eager not to have to deal with reddit's pussyfooting about being nice to the moids, honestly.

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

        I promise you I will. Discord is the fastest way to get news but the new site will be up very soon. You won't need to bother with nonsensical, inconsistent censorship and it'll be moid free. Glad you're here! spread the word <3

        [–]vcardthrow1 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

        Who did they report us to, gen admins?

        I didn't realize this is the second time we'd been banned.

        Thanks for setting this up. I'm devastated. Reddit is a cesspool but at least it had spaces for women to express themselves freely, if not with perfect safety.

        ...Increasingly less, I guess. Fuck the internet and fuck reddit.

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

        awesome to see you here, sis

        AHS uses mass reporting to target people and subs and I believe the action triggers some filtering system in Reddit. Then someone either admin or Anti Evil Operations does what they want. We can all see who gets to stay and speak and who doesn't but the femcel community will have its new home/ Where else do women like us gather and commiserate?

        [–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        Lets repell those two users who always makes drama on ask sub

        [–]poutymagic 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

        In regards to both the main sub and ask sub being banned, I say this is a load of barnacles.

        [–]EvilNick 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

        WTF is a femcell?

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

        Female celibates. Especially unattractive and or mentally ill women who cannot secure loving relationships. Most women do not find the idea of being used for casual sex by men who are disgusted by them appealing in any way so they continue to remain celibate to avoid the further damage such a thing would do to the psyche. It goes on but that's the gist.

        [–]EvilNick 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

        so basically fem version of MGTOW

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

        No because femcels aren't trying to cut themselves off from men. They are just depressed women, some working on self improvement, some just giving up discussing life as unattractive women. They come from all around the world with different cultures, different politics, and this misery in common with the unpleasant side effect of persistent dismissal from people who don't understand. For this reason the community is pretty insular.

        [–]EvilNick 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

        seriously then whats MGTOW because I thought that pretty much explained them too.

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

        They are a whole other monster facing male issues. We do not have the same challenges + that community is legitimately terrible. You can't take depressed women who long for love and marriage and say they are the same as men who are completely against marriage and often times women as well. Apples and oranges and absolutely no kinship there.

        [–]EvilNick 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        K never really looked to deep into them

        [–]National_Holobird 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

        I knew this would happen when we went public after long break. Reddit is anti women. Period

        [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

        I am glad we could find another place to talk. Giga you are always looking out for us and have always been our supporter. ❤

        [–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

        But she is black tho

        [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

        What does that have to do with anything?

        [–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

        Blacks spreads femcelism to others

        [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        No.

        [–]HornyToad 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

        Reddit says the sub is "deleted" but my reddit account still has all the karma from my posts on the trufemcels sub? Why does my account still have karma?

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

        The karma still exists bc it all really happened..even though its like the sub was never there. Keep your points, sis!

        [–]MochaMochi 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

        I legit didn't even notice until just a few minutes ago

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        3 days since Bardfinn and 'em accused of things that were not true and led another brigade of false reports. And because its a female based sub, its okay we get cut down. Reddit upholds and protects male subreddits thriving on buffoonery. We were always on borrowed time but thats okay. We needed to learn to do for ourselves. Glad to see you here sis

        [–]cement-wellies 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

        I sort of expected it after we recently appeared on AHS but it somehow still surprised me. Im sad we lost our "safe" space. Frankly it feels weird to be put in the same bag with right wingers and trump supporters when were just ugly women looking to be loved (oh the crime). The actions of ahs crew are short sighted and immature. They think they won, but all they did was deepen the divide. Who knows what are they gonna whine about once they ban FDS and wgtow too. I do wonder tho how do reddit advertisers feel about all the womens subs bans, since gender critical and PPF brought a lot of traffic aka money in their late days.

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

        As soon as I saw AHS do that, I had a feeling too which is why I finally created a discord. And yeah it's a very weird feeling. For a woman, extremism is any criticism They don't like while other parties can do soooo much more. It's the feeling silenced for the slightest things in a world where everyone gets a say that made the femcel community appealing to begin with. It's also not right that Reddit isn't even bothering with evidence anymore. Merely pointing fingers to swipe out a community.

        I don't know that they care that female spaces get wiped because the traffic was nothing like, say, The Donald brought in and they eventually got banned. Working on getting us a really nice space for femcels so hang in there. In the meantime I miss my femcel lambs so it's nice to see the community here

        [–]cement-wellies 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        Lets be real, reddit was never a place for women, at this point its a surprise 2X even exists, let alone it being a default sub with such a "transphobic" name. To be honest Im even kind of happy I dont have a reason to go on that site again, since outside of women-only subs the blatant misogyny was one whole frustrating black pill. This is a cold shower for all the hopeful women who think leftist men are on their side. Theyre not and were out here alone to fight our way through. We dont belong and were not equal. Theres a very narrow road to navigate if you wanna belong in the patriarchy boy club as a woman, and since femcels and radfems are way out of it we get de-platformed and pushed to the side. For me right now the most important thing is to stay clear internally on the fact that us, women who got ran off reddit, do not belong with these other banned groups like trump supporters and nazis, and if they were the admins, theyd do the same to us.

        You might be right they dont care, given they put so much effort in making Biden win and now he owes them, so they probably have 4 years full of bliss and profits (and avoiding harsher version of the expected social media regulation) ahead of them. Either way, Im really glad we have you giga. The femcel community could only thrive thanks to your dedication to make it a safe space for us. Coming to our sub gave me sanity when I had no allies irl to empathize and acknowledge that the pink pill is real. Much love

        [–]throwaway2828 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

        Reddit protected thedonald they gave them so many chances, and let them migrate their to their alterative site.thedonald.win is currently the 408 most popular site in the united states.

        https://www.alexa.com/siteinfo/thedonald.win

        [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

        Frankly it feels weird to be put in the same bag with right wingers and trump supporters

        There's like 4 liberals here if that makes you feel any better.

        [–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

        They have been reduced to 2 now

        [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

        Uh oh, who got banned?

        [–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

        Bookmobile and mega16

        [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

        :(

        [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

        well they can't be incel but still just lol at reddit banning them

        [–]Hotpink 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

        Thanks for starting the sub here and the Discord server. For a few moments I was worried I'll never find this community again.

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        I promise you-- so long as there is a way to give femcels a space and respite, I will do it. I know what it feels like to need people who relate and see nothing for years. This community is a special place. We are going to be fine.

        [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

        At least we still have saidit.

        [–]Gigababejfl[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        We do. And please join our discord, the femcel side is private and very chill. It'll be easy for us to update you ladies once our site is up