My personal conflicts? I simply accept my own internal dichotomy; as a singularity. It's okay to like, and dislike at the same time.
Thinking about it like this, then adding in time, and you can somewhat end up with a sine wave; likes, and dislikes; loves, and hates then become opposing cycles of the same forward motion movement.

I'm not trying to solve anything, as I don't know that there's anything to fix. As long as I know me, and learn to accept me, I don't need to compare my life to the next guy's, or be what the tv tells me to be.....put all that towards abortion, or any other topic, and it's okay to have conflict; it's your subconscious just helping you reach decision.