Women and children will never take responsibility for anything. What does a household look like when the kid demands to be in charge?

Women's understanding of what it means to be in charge ends at giving orders. That can work in situations where they are just managers, or administrators of a position someone else fleshed out. But in the case of running a relationship a woman can't. She won't plan a date, pay for it, show a guy a good time, take him home and think of it all as normal and expected of her. That is what men do every single time. When the date fails it's thier fault even with zero effort from the woman. That is what being in charge is.

When a woman tries to simulate that to "prove that they can do it to" they never get it right. If something goes wrong it's not thier fault. If everything goes right they expect praise and reciprocation. It's earth shattering. And they certainly won't respect the guy who simply showed up. At best this would be a one time thing and the guy better handle the next one.

If you are going to do all the work of being the man then you should wear the pants. It is unfair, toxic and unsustainable for the man to hand over all the benefits of being a leader while shouldering the responsibility.

That is not a pleasant way to go through life.