This is hilariously lacking in self awareness. You claim all women are different while attempting to speak on behalf of them all. No-one cares what you want from a man except men that are interested in you, and I expect most would leave quick because of all the nagging and abuse from you trying to get them to dress and act in a way you like. Could you imagine a man nagging you about your clothing and the way you act all the time? Your think him a controlling pig.