I agree. The idea that you must do anything, including like someone, is as absurd as saying you must like people who are unattractive for whatever subjective reasons - they're ugly, old, fat, thin, different race, annoying voice, awkward, bitchy, stupid, or pick their nose. There's no end to the ways people can be unattractive and forcing it is akin to reverse rape, depending on how they choose to force it.