High school under investigation after posting photos of students giving teachers lap dances

submitted by [deleted] from news.yahoo.com

sorted by:
top
newinsightfulfun
you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (15 children)

It's homecoming week, even parents who are otherwise normally strict buy their kids booze and hotel rooms. It has always puzzled me.

[–]Canbot 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

It is a typical grooming technique to get people to do things they normally wouldn't by framing it in a way that allows them to disassociate thier moral compas, responsibility, shame, and other cognitive faculties which normally keep them from being degenerate. It's the same thing with "sexy" Halloween costumes. Girls dress slutty, but it's "just a costume". They disassociate being a slut with dressing like a slut on holloween.

[–]Tiwaking 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

it's the same thing with "sexy" Halloween costumes. Girls dress slutty, but it's "just a costume".
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4rUiV_Hh74](Girls Costume Warehouse)

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Women like being bent over and fucked hard. That's the number 1 fantasy among women. We imagine women are chaste and demur, they aren't. They want to be fucked like their husbands are gone.

[–]StillLessons 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

We would all do well to be able to sort out our sexual fantasies from reality. As someone who went through a period in my life where I manipulated situations to make "my fantasies come true," it never worked. Doing what seemed so cool in my sexual fantasies was always crap when I actually did it. I doubt I'm alone in this. Now in a stable relationship, I find sex infinitely more satisfying having left all the fantasies behind and simply let it be what it is with each encounter. What we think we want very often makes us extremely unhappy when we actually get it. And what makes us happy is very mysterious and often comes from places we had no idea we were even looking.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I was taking about their fantasies, dude. I just want a ham sandwich and a bottle of vodka.

[–]StillLessons 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My comment wasn't directed at you specifically; your comment just called up a thought I've had a lot regarding the culture in general. Our TV, books, and movies are rabidly obsessed at this point with sexual fantasy. The blending of porn and mainstream culture is beyond obvious. At the same time we have a generation entering adulthood who report way decreased interest in sex. I've commented on this before; this just brought up the thought again. I agree with the people who say this looks like the end of the Roman Empire. It appears that once a society enters the decadent phase, this hyper-sexualization is part of the program. Not really surprising, I suppose, but sad to watch. Also, please note that I point this out from my own experience. I believe what I believe only after having tried the alternative for a few years. It took being an asshole to make me see that being an asshole isn't really fun and that I prefer and find it more fun treating people as whole persons rather than as objects.

[–]StillLessons 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

Buying their kids booze and hotel rooms assumes sex. BUT - and this is a huge but - the traditional assumption is that there will be sex between two students. That willingness to look the other way is still problematic, but it doesn't even approach the same magnitude as what's here.

Here we're talking about teachers and students. This is among the greatest power differentials that exist in traditional society. There have been many correctly fired teachers for abusing just that relationship of power over a student. But here to do so in the open public, assuming "Ha, ha, what fun!"??? Fuck. This is absolutely explicit sexual abuse according to just about any source you choose to look up what that term means. Well, until the past couple of years anyway...

[–]Canbot 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yet people still scoff at the idea that they are normalizing pedophilia.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Why is it so much better if little Suzie blows Johnny from down the street instead of her teacher? I know power difference, but when your daughter is being filled with a cock why is it so much better it's some other kid she knows instead of her teacher?

Obviously we don't want teachers sitting there waiting to bang jailbait. But to her, the experience could be bad either way.

[–][deleted]  (1 child)

[deleted]

    [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Why are you infantalizing high schoolers?

    I'm 41, they are kids to me. I mean, you have a point, those girls are old enough to show their tits legally at Hooters, why is it weird when an article points out they're high schoolers.

    I'm fresh out of high school

    Yeah, just a different perspective.

    Modern high school life is filled with drugs, violence and sex to a degree that would shock boomers.

    Actually no. They tamed that shit down. You went to High School Lite. We went before all the rules and back when fighting wasn't a police issue. It was violent constantly and kids fucked whenever they could. And HS remains probably the best place to score drugs. Same as it was for me.

    Imagine what you went through but 10 times worse.

    [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    You make good points and I'm not trying to be an asshole here, but why is it better that somebody's daughter gets pumped by an inexperienced cock exactly?

    Who cares who fucks her unless they're hurting her?

    There's always going to be a power differential.

    [–]StillLessons 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Power relationships exist. There are a lot of reasons people have sex. When a girl or guy has sex with a girl or guy roughly her/his age and status, they are both bringing roughly the same set of (dis)advantages to the table. Neither has an unfair leverage that they can exert over the other.

    This is not the situation here. Teachers - just by the fact of being teachers - exert power over students. Want to go to college? Oh, yeah... I need recommendations. Hm, he wants me to give him sex. See the problem?

    It's not about the age really - or even the experience. It's about the level of power differential and how that influences decisions. Now take this out into the world after high school. Is the kid (male or female) who has learned that authority figures want sex ever going to be able to have a natural non-sexual (or at least worried about it) working relationship with any authority figure? These sorts of "norms" have lasting effects on our perception of the people who make up our world.

    Our society is devolving rapidly.

    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I really agree with this whole post.

    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    It's important for girls and women to have platonic relationships with men, ones where they don't have to worry that there are sexual intentions involved. This should include their fathers, other relatives, teachers, older males in general. It's just a healthy thing and culturally important.