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[–]Canbot 19 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

And that is on having a materialistic wife. If she wants a huge wedding, which really is just for her, at the cost of your families financial future that isn't an attitude that is going to change after the wedding. Don't get me wrong, if I were rich I would want to have a wedding that was a vacation and party for all the guests; but only if I would still be left rich enough to never have to work. Every dollar spent now is worth 20 by the time you retire.

At the same time being poor makes divorce far more difficult. If you don't control for people who stay together out of poverty then the "study" is seriously compromised.

[–]philosopher 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Yep, and the article mentions materialistic personality aspects that affect men too: the more that looks mattered to the people getting married, the more likely they were to divorce.

[–]magnora7 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

And not to mention the people who literally work themselves to their grave to buy things they never really wanted in the first place. Severe materialist desire is a disease.