Redditor refuses to stop using her vibrator

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[–]CheeseWizard 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You don't understand, it's not desensitization, I can stop using my Monster Dragon Cock any time I want, I'm not addicted. I wish you would explore my body more, and accept I prefer my concrete coring machine and corn drillers. Whoa whoa WHOA is that a fleshlight you disgusting pig????

[–]Bridgeheadprod 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

This is one of the less “Reddit” things. Sounds like the guy is a whiner

[–]NastyWetSmear 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Agreed. There's two things at play here:

The woman certainly has trained her body to cum a certain way. It's like women who, as younger people who lived with their parents, might have learned to masturbate by using a pillow or the edge of a desk or just squeezing their thighs and rocking - once their body has done that for 10 years, changing to normal sexual activity isn't going to provide what the body is used to. Her boyfriend isn't wrong: if she stopped using the vibrator she would start to cum from other things over time.

On the other hand, it sounds like he has all the sexual skill of a diced potato. If she likes the vibrator, include it. Let her use it while you're having sex with her. If she likes clitoral stimulation, do a lot of it. Oral sex, your hands, a toy, letting her use her hands while you're doing other things with her... He will never have the ability to vibrate at high speeds for 15 minutes without interruption, so this isn't a question of his inability to perform or his size or anything he has control over. Just adjust your play style.

[–]CheeseWizard 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Oh shut up. Now tell a Reddit woman to adapt her style for porn watching during sex, death grip and vibration. 🙄

[–]NastyWetSmear 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I don't think I understand what you mean, but I can promise you that telling a woman on Reddit something, no matter how reasonable or logical, won't end with anything helpful.

[–]Musky[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

There are links in the thread purporting to prove vibrators do not desensitize women, but afaik they most certainly do. Women who use vibrators to orgasm tend to need vibrators to orgasm.

.https://old.reddit.com/r/amiwrong/comments/182bcw4/am_i_wrong_for_using_my_vibrator/

[–]iamonlyoneman 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Not so much desensitization, but more like accustomization. No human can do what a vibrator does, and she likes what it does.

[–]Musky[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly

[–]hfxB0oyA 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The guy should develop an appreciation for eating clam, and maybe that'll wean her off.