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[–]MyLongestJourney 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (37 children)

Why the fuck then after a post was posted to say the worst thing we have ever been through would you then support a post that says sexual assault survivors are not really lesbians?

Who said that?Why do you lie?

Edit. This is the quote OP misinterpreted :

"recently reading in this sub about how many have been sexually abused got me wondering how it must have very few actual lesbians, meaning actual homosexual women instead of ‘I have a problem with men’ women, in a already very small lesbian forum. I’m a lesbian because I just happen to be homosexual. It’s not a political statement nor a moral choice nor a sexual abuse cope".

So what you claim OP is a total misinterpretation of her words.She did not in anyway say that lesbians who have been sexually abused are not really lesbians. She says she has an issue with political lesbians,aka bisexual and heterosexual women who co-opt the lesbian identity because they have a problem/traumatic experiences with men.

[–]oofreesouloo 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (14 children)

Perfect! I stopped coming here for a couple of months because of this constant people's misinterpretation of words and constant attacks for no good reason whatsoever, honestly. It seems like lots of people here are LOOKING for conflict lmao, instead of calmly trying to understand the other person's pov.

[–]MyLongestJourney 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Do not give up this sub for the sake of few bad apples. Do not give them what they want : to destroy an actual lesbian space.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Sexual assault victims speaking out is destroying a lesbian place to you? Got it

[–]MyLongestJourney 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

If we were face to face madam I would sue you for defamation.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Lmfao then you don’t know the meaning of defamation.

[–]MyLongestJourney 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

You should be banned. Reported.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I can’t wait for people to read this. Telling someone they should be banned just for speaking out on an open forum. How old are you?

[–]MyLongestJourney 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Reported again

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I really can’t wait for the mods to see how hard you decided to come down on a sexual assault victim speaking out.

Congrats. I hope you feel good about yourself

[–]Seahorse 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

This is exactly why I left too and I agree.

[–]oofreesouloo 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

<3 <3 (I know other people who did too for the same reasons, so yeah, we're not alone. Take care *)

[–]reluctant_commenter 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Same.

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Dude, exact same here. I don't understand it.

[–]oofreesouloo 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's ridiculous to the point it's even hilarious... I've been here for like 2 days maximum after MONTHS of not being here and there's already someone super angry with something (this post) ... Anyway, hope you're well, take care x

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Aw thanks you too!! :)

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (20 children)

SHE LITERALLY SAID IN THIS SUB. Dude read what YOU quoted. Toxic and disgusting.

[–]MyLongestJourney 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (19 children)

No she did not. You keep lying and lying and lying.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (18 children)

Go back and read the post AND her comment reply to someone else who pointed out her calling lesbians who have been through sexual assault not real lesbians.

It’s not lying when there’s a PUBLIC RECORD WRITTEN DOWN.

[–]MyLongestJourney 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I am very happy that there is a public record exposing you for being a liar.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

What she wrote is literally available for anyone to read. Clearly you are the OP of that other post and now you’re spamming me for calling you out

[–]MyLongestJourney 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

LOL.

[–]oofreesouloo 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (14 children)

One excerpt of one her comments:

Yes. That’s true. It could happen of a lesbian get raped and in this case the rape has nothing to do with her sexual orientation but I’m not talking of this. I’m talking of women who “decide to become a lesbian” because they were sexually abused, or because mEn SuKc (might not be abused but have problems with men), those women do exist.

Stop defaming people.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (13 children)

“In this case” go back and read the whole thing. Stop switching between your accounts.

[–]oofreesouloo 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

bwahahahaha. I'm most likely not even from the same country as all of you here are LMAO. And I've read it. Do you want more proof?

But my annoyance is more than just what sexually abused political lesbians.

OH, look! Can you read? She said sexually abused POLITICAL lesbians. Jeez, super hard to understand lmao.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

I’m leaving this to the mods. Multiple people DMd me thanking me for speaking out. A lot more read that post exactly how I did.

Good luck with whatever compels you to come after someone who has been sexually assaulted and is speaking out

[–]oofreesouloo 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

Go ahead lmao. And it's your turn now. Show me exactly where she said that ALL sexually abused women aren't real lesbians? Looking forward. Lmao.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Go back to the sub and spam everyone who saw exactly what I saw. Trying to silence sexual assault victims is really gross. I hope you get help for whatever you’re going through that causes you to log on from separate accounts using the same language to attack one person for speaking out.

Be less obvious. And go learn the meaning of defamation. You (both of your accounts) clearly don’t know it.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

She said after reading about it here she thought well that must mean that there are very few actual lesbians HERE because we have been through sexual assault. Do not gaslight me.