Not every bi girl sleeps around but the girls who sleep around usually say they’re bi.

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[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 5 fun -  (16 children)

Yeah. It’s usually

-bisexual hatred -man hatred -heterosexual hatred -what’s your favourite colour? -oddly unrelatable lesbian post that seems off -unrequited love -some fun stuff

[–]FrostyNugs 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

Oh yes, my other favorites. But you forgot the -feminist post that has nothing to do with homosexuality-. I swear some people just think this sub is just a place for posts that didn't get enough upvotes on s/gendercritical.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Most feminism has to do with homosexuality in my eyes, but it’s probably because i know a shitload of lesbian feminists. That fucking one post tho about all the man-sex was uggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. I wish we could go one day without mansex as a fucking talking point

[–]FrostyNugs 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Personally I do not see feminism and homosexuality to be related at all, any more than being a feminist would be related to any other involuntary characteristic a woman could have. But yes the man-sex post was the post that came to my mind as I was writing that, lol. Like girl, what on earth do you expect us to relate to about this post?

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think they naturally parallel each other. Or whatever the word is that means women who love women would be more likely to fight FOR women, and thereby get into women’s lib in some circles, which is feminist.

I think the only thing we all related to about all of that mansex mumbo jumbo was that we were barftastic over it. Like yeah nah

[–]yousaythosethings 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If that post weren't deleted, I'd send it to Dr. Ray Blanchard.

[–]Innisfree 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (10 children)

Nailed it! Looooooool. The brilliant thing is these topics trigger each other. It's the Gotterdamerung on s/ lesbians, the eternal struggle between the forces of depression and those of optimism.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

I get pretty bad depression once a month and it just makes it worse for me. Lol. Like, i think we can all agree not to date bi women if we don’t trust them. I have had some bad heartbreak with bi women, but a bi woman is also my best friend, so it’s sometimes a bit much to see non-stop posts about their evil sluttiness or whatever all the time. The ones who call themselves lesbians when they secretly know they like men can fuck ALLLLL the way off. And the women who are bi and call themselves “gay” non-stop can join the others on their way to fuck off.

But to just be shitting on bisexuals as a general group is gross.

I would like more fun posts to contribute to, to balance the others, but i am not in a fun mood, so meh. Lol

[–]FrostyNugs 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

100%. Bi girls who call themselves lesbians make life harder for homosexual women. But proud bi women who are just out there living their lives? I don't see why they deserve the hate they get on here. My good friend is a bi dude, so all of the bi hate and the man hate kinda weirds me out sometimes.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah, i have moments of frustration, but i have them at lesbians too, at anyone. The L G and B argue, that is the way of things. We are different. Most of us were used to it. I would like to date another lesbian, but I get just as extreme of crushes on bi women, and I would obviously pursue it. One thing that pisses me off is our spaces being invaded by women who should know better. But the wholesale hate is just disgusting

[–]peaked2020 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don’t wholesale hate bisexuals. I only hate this subgroup of attention seeking bisexuals. The others I would also date if the right girl was interested.

[–]peaked2020 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I also have close bi friends. I’m talking about a subgroup of bisexuals, not all of them. My bi friends don’t behave this way but they also notice this group.

[–]Innisfree 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Seconded on bi women and the rest. The gratuitous hate is the worst, the low effort mud slinging is tiring. Being a happier/more contended person is work, and that's why I appreciate the lighter side of this sub - that includes well placed sarcasm and irony. :)

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think we should focus a lot less on hating bisexuals who are upfront about it and not ashamed. We should not really hate on anyone because it’s bad for us (each of us, our bodies, stress levels etc), but it happens. If there is anyone that earns my ire it’s liars, people who assume they will only date women and deny attraction to dudes. They are different than bi ppl who are just existing as themselves. Sometimes I think the rage is misplaced

[–]Innisfree 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You make a good point - when ppl don't make the distinction, it is a sign of bad faith aka hating.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hate liars. If there is anyone i “hate” it’s people who lie about important things to the people they are supposed to love in order to get them to do something. That happened to me in my hardest relationship, she lied about the amount of dudes she slept with, how much she cheated on her ex, that she was bi, etc. Blamed it on trauma when it was pretty obvious that it wasn’t the trauma since we worked on so much of it together for YEARS. Those are the bisexuals who are irksome, and it’s not because they are bi that they are doing that, it’s because they are fucked up, imo.

The other stuff out bisexuals pull is a nuisance at worst

[–]peaked2020 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’m not shitting on them as a general group. I know not all of them are like this. It’s a group within bisexuals that I’m side eyeing. The ones that are unicorn hunters and use lesbians for attention