So yeah, my ex dumped me last week.
Basically I found out 2 months ago she had been texting a girl she had a fling with in a sexual way and while I decided to forgive her, I was distant sometimes.
She says that me being distant hurt her a lot and she no longer feels the same about me, she stills loves me but is less 'in love' and she feels that being in love is the most important thing.
It's not the first time I 've had a girl say this, personally I believe the 'in love' fades after a few months (or sometimes never happens) and then it becomes love which is very important.
What do you guys think?
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