For context I'm 16 and starting college (UK) in September. Rant.
I know I'm young to be sick of this already but it's so much. I'm at the age where I'm not left alone to be a kid anymore, instead I'm being confronted by expectations left and right.
I have to style my hair this way, wear this, put on make up if I want to get a job, put on make up if I want to look presentable. What's wrong with my normal face? I get told by all the women in my family that I could be so pretty, if only I xyz. Which ends up being some torturous beauty regime, some impractical hairstyle or stiff clothing meant to accentuate your ass so men can better stare at it I guess. I even got told by an older friend of my grandma's who's known me since I was very young that "you're not Patti Smith, the androgynous look has been done. It's not a necessary political statement anymore. You just look like a lesbian."
I don't want to be pretty. But of course everyone around me my age and older is engaging in all of these things and it's a bonding thing. A pack mentality, because the moment they see that I'm not like them and I don't care I'm ignored or even treated coldly by my peers. I've always been called "weird" but now, since all the girls have been fake tanning and wearing make up and fake nails for 2 or so years, they look at me and judge. I have no idea what exactly goes through their heads but the judgement is very apparent. I'm not trying to be all high and mighty and not like the other girls. This is just my experience and I'm not proud that I didn't "succumb to societal pressure" or whatever because I wish I could, it would make my life so much easier.
Rant over
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