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The "Sexual Spectrum": Why I Think It's Bunk

submitted 3 years ago by writerlylesbian from self.Lesbians

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[–]writerlylesbian[S] 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun - 3 years ago (4 children)

One of the things that I am personally very annoyed about is that there is this astronomical amount of 'queer research' out there, and yet there is so little useful research that is actually carried out in/on LGB populations. So many words, so much useless data.

And yes, not accounting for your own biases or understanding the population you're researching. I remember talking to this woman once who was angry because she was interviewing older lesbians in rural areas who, as she discovered, did not like modern queer/LGBT/gender politics. What a shocker! Her conclusion: they were obviously backward bigots who hadn't evolved. Or like those researchers who found that lesbians would date transmen but not transwomen and concluded the lesbians were hypocritical bigots because they would date 'men.' LOLOL

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