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[–]hufflepuff-poet 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

]CrisicMuzr 1616 points 1 day ago I can't imagine the stress they felt leading up to coming out to each other and the tremendous relief that would have rushed over them when they realized they could make it work. And then laughing at the absurdity of the situation later.

[–]makegoodchoicesok This is me and my wife. It was exactly like that lmao

[–]Gretchenmeows 626 points 1 day ago This is my Wife and I too. She came out as Trans and I very quickly realised I was a victim of Compulsory female heterosexuality and was actually gay AF. Now we are just 2 hot girls causing chaos.

I hate these people so much. Literally larping as us. Using their trans status to trap their newly out lesbian partners in a shitty straight relationship or forcing their bi/het female partners to pretend to be gay to validate their gender feelz. I'm ready to get off this clown ride 🙃🤡🤬

[–]reluctant_commenter[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

or forcing their bi/het female partners to pretend to be gay to validate their gender feelz.

Yup. Which is a form of gaslighting... "Pretend you're only attracted to women and not men!" What a weird inversion of the typical pressure to hide one's same-sex attraction.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Yup. Which is a form of gaslighting... "Pretend you're only attracted to women and not men!" What a weird inversion of the typical pressure to hide one's same-sex attraction.

Word. And of course the true irony here is: if the woman that he's married to actually did discover that she was a lesbian? SHE WOULD LEAVE HIM! "Guess what, honey? Turns out that we have something in common! We're both exclusively female-attracted... and feel that nothing less than a 'cis woman' will do! So buh-bye!" God, reading an account of it going THAT way would be sooo satisfying...

I wonder if any woman in this position has ever tried that? Or maybe claiming to have suddenly realized that she's a gay man? So, oops, now that you're a cute anime girl, hun, it's obviously not gonna work! Too bad! Now if you'll excuse me, I gotta go find myself a husband! [divorces his ass at the speed of sound]

[–]reluctant_commenter[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I wonder if any woman in this position has ever tried that?

I've definitely seen accounts of lesbian women on the transbians sub (r/actuallesbians, to be clear... there are so many transbian subs at this point) expressing their lack of interest in dick and they get shamed and flamed for it every single time. I'm not sure how common it would be to have the revelation that you're homosexual at the same time as your male partner comes out as AGP, though.

Or maybe claiming to have suddenly realized that she's a gay man?

Lmao, that would be a 4D chess move.